Is it possible to get into an agreement with the husband about the custody of the child while still married?
He seems to have lot of problems and in case of separation in future, I would like to avoid custody problems and would like to get into an agreement now. I would like to progress on child bearing only if we are fine with the agreement. Otherwise, maybe the better option is to apply for divorce and go for sperm donor instead.
Are such agreements legal and valid? how to make them? (If it helps, this is my second marriage, his first marriage, I am well educated and settled with properties. He is unemployed, uneducated , , no salary. we are both 43, 44 years old)