Dont come if possible...settle down out of INdia....get married have kids..invite ur parents....ther are many other things important to do in life....let her suffer for her wrong doing...
ask compensation for mental trauma...
keep the matter for mediation....duly in writing in front of mediator ---i,e consent terms...she withdraws all the cases....get the terms and cond as u want it to be....consent term says that ..."you have been acquitted in the 498a case"...
divorce shall be on the last item...
she waives all her maint rights.. and withdraws all the allegations....
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Pl note am not a lawyer. this is based on my personal experince and aafter long battle of 4 years I forced my wife to withdraw all the cases...1. maintence claiming..30lac....2. 498a...compunded..she became hostile...3. and last divorce converted to MCD which she had filed (I Not pressed my interim maint appn u/s 24 HMA). and belv me all done in span of 1 week... after they succumbed to my strategy....
with due respect to all experts---any body can differ with my views...but this is what I did/forced in my case.
India is gr8 country... ... woman gets old twice or thrice fast compared to Man...cash in this trump card...good for me. worked for me ....might work for other victims as well...