Observation:-
Hindu Marriage Act is Amendment LABORATORY that is the cost one pays for being born as HINDU.
I pity other religion’s spouses Personal Laws they now have tough times to catch up with HMA J
Remedy:
Opt status of Ghar Jamai
Reasoning:
Relinquish deed inheritance share to your family members name before marriage. Marry then, oh yes why not marry – why live life of bachelor – why opt for surrogacy – why risk time pass in live-in; I suggest do marry it is safe now with this last amendment we are going to see in our lifetime!. After FIL’s death who will inherit his properties; you two as once you install yourself as Ghar Jamai everyday talk to your FIL on merits of making a Will just like what a metro wife does the moment she enters matrimonial home (she asks for kicking your parents or registering their property in your name or her name - righto!) and side by side in current metro marriages, like a metro wife leaves matrimonial home any fine day in pretext of her natal family function or sickness you have liberty to do same too on and off taking your FIL’s car with you (like what she does to you – does she not take your moms jewllery also with her!) and then it will be your FIL who will be calling you daily – sending mediators to you to come back r/w FIL will be forced to make partition of his property to make arrangements for comfortable stay of his Ghar Jamai and daughter as it is obvious he cannot kick out now his daughter as society will say something na further r/w if your old folks need roof over their head just like what does today’s metro wife demands for her parents from you the day she enters your home, same you can demand from your FIL from day one to give your old folks roof or give daily threat that you are leaving status of Ghar Jamai. While staying in FIL's home as Ghar Jamai you can work in your IT / ITES cushion jobs why not and send money to your home same what a working metro wife does while living with you in your home hai ki nahi. If you have G/f talk to her in night time whole living as Ghar Jamai; I mean does not a metro wife talk to her b/f while living in your home?. I mean, to tell you now are these not the arguments (oops facts) you people tell us to give legal remedy upon!!! I also like to ask each one of you repliers what is wrong being Ghar Jamai and why it is your below dignity??? That means you are still living in feudal mindset the moment you bring some arguments to me on demerits of Ghar Jamai.
Recall; is ‘false’ dowry demand not each one of your storyline here! By being Ghar jamai that IPC section FIL will never advise her daughter to use ever, so you and your cardiac or ortho sick folks back home never ever need to worry about going to jail – no AB – no Bail worries ever. Another story you challenge everyday here is on maintenance – ability – educated metro wife blah blah and beat each other with best citations and one more citations etc. etc. – right! While living as Ghar jamai do you expect her to tell Court that give me maintenance ? I mean does that not require one more amendment for maintenance Laws of the land collectively J The beauty in reference here is that under HMA you can ask for maintenance from your wife right under nose of your FIL kicking her to fan out and find work from her father’s home and able bodied concept that is currently only seen by judges for all India men will then be seen apt applicable for all these metro wives. What now is left; child custody, oh common does a metro wife not leave home to her natal home with YOUR child in pretext of tying rakhi or attending some natal home festival keepign you in dark for ages? Same you get opportunity to do now via dumb charade of these amendments i.e. taking your own child to your folks place any fine sunny day and now let her run to GWA / DV Courts seeking custody - visitation and BTW do you recall status quo word / phrase, that is what will be maintained now in favor of you? J You see this Bengali concept of Ghar jamai is best concept for pan India applicability which Hindu men living in other metros have never heard it seems to me J How? In her own home right under her father’s eye will she now allege you did verbal abuse – mental abuse – health abuse – dream abuse - physical abuse etc. ect. Or that killer R-T-R (right to residence) as per DV Act? Are not various ld. Jstc. Of HC’s said that it is highly improbable that a husband will travel long distance to go to his wife’s home to beat her up when she has neighbors and family member to protect her thus quash!!! Recall all those mint fresh citations and golden words and laminate them and take as metro marddhan when adapting to Ghar jamai…….
I am for such amendments in HMA for one more reason; metro husbands will become from current tabala to bechara (same concept as abala) believe me and do vote with your family / friends / colleagues for such amendments becoming Gazette notified soonest in your life time.
However, all these and much more are possible if you shed your feudal mentality and announce your comfortable arrival for long term stay in 21st. Century THE AMENDED MTERO India shedding your feudal mindset.