Urgent help for 498a

Try to sort out the issue with the help of the elders from both the sides, this would be the best idea

well if atall she files the case the she will file the case in her home town only, if she files then you have to apply of an AB form the session court.

Dear Ms.Rao, 

1. Your fears are not unfounded. Laws in India especially 498A/406 are heavily skewed in favour of women, and are abused and misused. 

2. You should start early by intimating authorities as to your apprehension of false case (this is aptly done by a lwyer) this would help in case she chooses to go to the police (before that she does not fcome to know about this)

3. Adultery/Cruelty/Desertion are all grounds for divorce in India, file a case if you think marriage is beyond repair through your POA in India. 

Feel free to talk !

Dear Asish Sir,

   At first thank you very much for providing useful information.

  Suggestion: You can contest the case from Malaysia. Once you return to India, your passport can be impounded.

Doubt: Can you suggest me how can I contest from Malayesia? Through advocate, is it? If they want can they arrest me through ambassey or counsolate?

Is it necessary to come downsome time, if Judge want to clarify some thing?

Because I have enough recording after marriage which indicates, about the relation with past boy friend, where in my absence he (her boy friend) was demanding that how he is realizing as he did not able marry..and he was ready to pay any amount to me if I will not marry her..But at that time my wife did not gave him my hand phone number..So is it necessary to explain to Judge or can I pass to my advocate?

After marriage also day by day she demanded defferent thing and ultimately she is telling that she don't want to join with me..

So on that basis can I inform all these things to police before she file case? Will it be helpful for me to get anticipatory bell?

As chances for rejoinis very less, So can I apply for diverse or RCR or AB?

Thank you in advance..

Sorry to hear about that.I am also in same boat.They cannot pull you back to India from abroad.Better to stay in abroad only until this issue is resolved.Apply AB for your parents.498 a is become very small case now a days.Cops may come to your home and tell to your parents dont give single pennt to them.I think they have to get written permission from SP or from superior officers if they want to arrest your parents(But I am not sure,Please check with lawyer).Based on my experience its better to get AB as soon as you can...File a quash in High court.

Hi Mohan,

    Thank you for your kind information.

So for my case is it necessary to get AB for my meas well, as I am staying abroad..

Can you please give me your email ID for some more information, so that I can able to contact you.

    ramaaryan236@gmail.com

   Thank you..

Hello

Dont be too tensed and keep all your recordings with u. Below are some things that u might want to do in case if you think that your marriage is no more going to work. 

1. Contact her/your elders and tell them that she is involved with her ex BF and ask for MCD(going by the record, a wife threatening with false allegations along with an affair is absolutely nooooooo)

2. Still if u or ur elders feel like rejoining her to ur family, get from them in writing that there has been no dowry/harrassment frm your side to her as on date.

3.As rightly said, you can write a letter/petition to your SP/Commissioner that you fear a wrong case against you and also mention that you feel some danger to your parents/family in case of your absence. Get a stamp on the copy complaint and can also submit in your nearest police station

4. Try to hire a detective agency in india(there are so agencies which work on private cases) and collect more evidence about her involvement with her ex BF(if and only if you feel that there is no chance of patch up. And in the mean time if you in overseas and she in India, there is fair chance that she might again meet her ex.BFsome possibility. )

5. All in the mean time even if you have slightest doubt abt false case, get AB for your family ASAP.

6. Keep in hand atleat 200,000 rs as of now on safe side.

7. visit https://www.saveindianfamily.org/ and join the group. Also visit 498.org and get Survival Kit for 498a cases which you can get from net

8. Dont agree to pay a single penny to other party even they threaten. Instead, hire a good lawyer if necessary

All the best.

Dear Sunny ji,

   Thank you very much for your kind information.

Can you please give me your contact number and suitable time for discussion, so that I can share some of my experience what exactly I am facing now?

My email ID is: ramaaryan236@gmail.com

sent an email to you...pls check

Dear Sunny Ji,

    I am very much thankful to Sunny Ji, for his valuable suggestion.

Dear Mr Rao amd Mr sunny i am also on same boat my wife have made my life hell their is no way we can stay together. i am alse now fearing 498a. daily morning i get up with this fear my social life have scrued.

But i have decided i will not any one  spoil my life for nothing so i am come in attacking mode.

i know she dont want to stay with me so i am calling her now

by filling restitution of conjugal rights

this helps u in not paying maintenace and huge alimony

i thing we all should come together and form a group

and fight againt this false 498a

do forward your IDs

and dont fear we will fight

I entirely agree with the expert opinion of Mr.Davessar and Mr.Chugh

Dear Mr Rahul,

    Thank you for your valuable suggestion,.

My email ID is ramaaryan236@gmail.com