I am married and having 8 months daughter..My wife is never a good partner of mine she always pressurizes me to do things what she says which I don’t like at all because if I am giving full freedom to her then I also expect the same. I am not a slave. I don’t have any kind of freedom. (Freedom means I don’t have any bad habits of drinking and going here and there. I just want to do some things on my own I want to be Nikhil & not a slave) I got married early at 23 yrs of age & its a love marriage accidentally & we got married against our parents decision. I married her because of her only.. I never lived my life as a individual after marriage, she said she will commit suicide if i don’t get marry to her. She tried to commit suicide 2 years before because I was not listening to her I wanted to do things on my own. But finally I got agree to her because of her suicide decision. .She is stubborn... She always want things to be happen as per her wish..She always force me to do things which is making me more irritated & I cannot stay with her now.. Also she does not handle anything in home (Marriage means two hearts comes together to start new life, you should be a good friend of ur partner instead of being just a wife or a husband. You should always hold hand of your partner in every bad situation) but here nobody is there to hold my hand always I take care of every little things & her needs. Due to office I cannot concentrate on everything which is not really possible as I am not a robot. She never takes any kind decision because she does not understand things. You have to explain her 10 times to make her understand any situation (Log kehte hai ki “shaadi ki gaadi ek hi paiyye pe nahi chalti” which is really true) When I advice her that try to handle some at least some little things on your own & she always starts arguing with me. She don’t like to stay in my home when I go somewhere she also wants to go to her mom n dad’s home & when my mom goes out means to village or for any other function she does not want to work in home again she leaves home & go to her mom dad’s home. So, there is no body in home who can prepare lunch or dinner for me Or my brother N pappa when I come from office and also nobody to handle our home. Her mentality is like a child & I cannot handle her anymore. I have to convince her 2000 times to go anywhere even in my society compound which is like ohh my god what have I done to my life.. Its really comedy.. She always fights with me for every little thing. I have lost my all friends due to her..She never respect my parents specially my father. & always abuse and fight with him.. She always lie to my mom n dad. She was not doing any job 1 year before & she always use to go to her mom dad place & my parents are under impression that their daughter in law is doing job. I thought things will change after baby’s birth but all are same. I can’t handle her any more, I tried to change her attitude but no success. I want to be separate.. I am ready to take her financial responsibility & provide all things to her and my baby after divorce. There are many other things but can’t write as I don’t want to make an essay & sorry for so long story. Request you to please suggest me what to do
