Why girl guilty in society?

because of these cases now intellingent people are killing there wife intelligently

ek baar me hi chutkara . dowry case fight karne me 5-6 sal if conviction the again improsion ment

so better kill her and go for seven years and again come with money  , peace and knowledge and go for second marriage

this is good strategy

i am not taking anybody's side. I just wanted to say that, for any of our family member's fault, we never throw them out of house, then why for wife we take such type of decision. Ever any body have thought if his mother/sister is not good  and therefore he will  bring another mother/sister??  Then why this for wife, the girl left her whole world for husband and his family. If it hurts some one , I am realy sorry

Good Observation!! And what say of humour

Aptly put. tell me:

1) How many times a father when slapped a his daughter over spilled milk, she think of throwing him in the jail? But then why sometimes husband just after few days of marriage (let say 5) is being guilty of Domestic violence.

  

2) How many times a mother when pass a taunt to her daughter, she think of taking residance rights from mother ? Then why when husband's mother property is being trapped even if the mistake is of husband?

  

3) Or rather tell me, in how many instances, husbands parent file mantainance on him if he has to leave them to save matrimonial life ?? but a wife will 100% use this tool to extort money as soon as her husband leaves her even if she was being cruel to him

 

Now with these draconian woman biased laws, they are being grown with a mentality that on small families disputes, its an right of women to file 498a/DV. Why cant she just ask for divorce if she thinks her husband is not good enough as per her expectations? 498a is a criminal law which is being heavily misused on family matters which could have been resolved using elderly councelling but most of the times, girl just to teach husband a lesson or to extort money files 498a.

it can be possible , and it realy wrong also. but i have seen there are some real sufferer also not geting justice. the gal can leave her home for husband do u think she can not leave her some bad habbits  for husband. she can but only when u will give her love and care. in place love care  people try to throw her out.

If few genuine victim girls are suffering then again for that blame goes to female gender. Do you know more than 1 lakh of matrimonial dispute cases are being filed every year out of hich more than 95% turn out to be false so judges are aware that girls are misusung these IPC sections heavily and they do not want to punish the innocent husbands blindly thus such cases take years to get settle down. Better asking this question that why girls are considered guilty, try exploring that why do girls misuse matrimonial laws?

 

aam aadmi in India is not fed with correct news and hence the issue. Newspapers always bloat up any women related crime and hence from media coverage we always think that such crimes are high. A few pointers here -
1. We all say dowry is a menace – but do not realize that maintenace is a larger menace as a) dowry is illegal and hence can be punished, b) Dowry is one time, maintenace is every month, lifelong, c) Wife can get marriedm be employed but still enjoys husbands money and property too (under DVA) and abuse husband.
2. Custody battles are mostly given in mothers favour. Father becomes ‘Visting Uncle’, while he pays for them
3. One false affidavit by a woman or her cries are given more weihtage by this ‘so called ‘Patriarchal’ soceity judges and even most abusive, able bodied, working or adulterous wife granted maintenace. Women still cry more empowerment
4. Man has physical power but use of that is legally prohibited and any woman can make stories around that to put him in jail. Man can’t take a roundabout way in avoiding legal shackles.
5. The number of women raging war on their husbands/BFs is increasing and will continue to increase ss a result of women empowerment. This is directly evident from all biased laws and how women support these without understanding anything.
6. I am giving separate reply to your reply to XYZ..

dear MAM,

all the laws are in favour of women.  there is no law made who protects men. My wife ran away from my home for hier boyfriend, when she is caught running away she accused my father on attempt to rape.......... I went to her home to bring her back, she demanded new flat from me on  her & her parents name and that also in her parents city. also I have been abused by my FIL & BIL & MIL & SIL my FIL sad thet he will F**K my mother.............WHICH MAN CAN HEAR THIS TYPE OF WORDS. 

Never allowed to talk / meet my son............

I tried many attempts to bring her back but no response from her...........I tried many attempts to sasve my marriage but she never responded positively.

She never tried to save her marriage not even a single time.

But now when I have filed for Divorce, I received her reply with---------------498A, attempt to rape, DV, Maintenance........

She demanded 25 LAkhs immediately, 1 lakh every month, requested court to take my passport so that i cant run out of my country. 

THIS IS ALL BECAUSE GIRLS NEED A RICH MAN NOT A HUSBAND........

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Originally posted by : LAW STUDENT
	it can be possible , and it realy wrong also. but i have seen there are some real sufferer also not geting justice.  mam answwer of  this question you know better or find  as you are advocate and aware of current happening in society . the gal can leave her home for husband do u think she can not leave her some bad habbits  for husband.she can but only when u will give her love and care. in place love care  people try to throw her out. mam if your this statement is 100% correct then why dont you observe nearby or in your own house , please dont get angry or dont mind just see in your or owr home first is this so? our mother , sis in law or yourself if you are married , really thrown out of their own house though they have those habits which are not making happy to our dad, brothers or husband but still they are continuing with their wifes, yes the gal can leave her home for husband she also leave her some bad habbits for husband  i agreed but here the question is not of habbits it is of mentality and that will be healthy mentaliyt , every girl is getting love and care after marriage now a days almost all if the marriage is solomonises by their will , now girls are talking almost a month  to her future husband , she have full power to select him or not, then also you are asking the why the girls are thronw out? this is becuase of the girls only now the husbands are struggling to earn money for their establishing their life if wife is instead of helping her crating disturbance or producing obstacle then such type of ladies are thorwn out and there is no harm or mistake or say any bad in that , now a day s life is so critical difficutlt and uncertain and wife are not suuporting him instead of campanion they are becoming opponent to husband and in laws so they are thrown out after the limit of patience get crossed , here i m using limit of patience  ther are lot of families who are passing through this staage and womans organisation or lawyers insteade of healping to settle out their pravoking the womans to break their families by different law tackties to bow down their husband so these problem are ariseing ................................................. i thing you havae got suffiecietn satisfactory answer to yur question ilasttly our old modern days are accurate where tjhe womnas are traditionally follwing th e cultureal values so they were treated as mohter goddess but now secent has changeed and they are ...thrown out..... as they alsow change their path instead of right track they are going on wrong way those who are still following happy in their life and living as SETHANI, OR MALKING OR BADI BAHU of their house. and ruling over the mens.and mens also serving them as a slave happily.

Dear sir ,  i never mind any thing

i think now a days our expectation is some what more, from wife, we think she must take care of parents’, home, husband , children, and  must do job also. if she is doing these all then its ok but unfortunately if she fail some where or she like to manage some thing according her wish than her married life is under danger zone . Then husband will try to throw her out.

The girl is  very innocent, she comes with pure intention, and with a lot of love in heart for husband, but cause of such stupid type problem husband try to spoil her life, then what option for ???  and now if she take help of law then we say she is wrong.

“Hum q bhul jate he ki jab hum kisi ko apnate he to sirf achchiyi hi nahi uski har burai k sath apnate he , or jab koi burai samne ati he to hum sahan nahi krte”

Dear sir , i never mind any thing NICE ATTITUDE

i think now a days our expectation is some what more, from wife, we think she must take care of parents’, home, husband , children,

these are her duties every decent family expect this and every woman feel proud in doing this also she enjoys it.......... i m not wrong here even if you are woman then you also enjoy indoing these thing. and must do job also to do jod depends on his own wish and also with husband and family concerned , if they dont want then no need to do job if family is well settled and husband have suffietient earning then no need to do job ,every family and husband wants famlly peace first money from wife is secondary, here the girls says " maine padai ghar baithne ke liye thodi ki mai bhi kama sakti hu , mai bhi kam nahi hu, mai ghar baith kar kichen or house wife kyon banu" it is her status ego. jitne bhi house wife job kar rahi hai unme se 60% ko job ki jarurat hai hi nahi, fir job kyon kar rahi hai? .

if she is doing these all then its ok but unfortunately if she fail some where or she like to manage some thing according her wish than her married life is under danger zone . Then husband will try to throw her out.

Husaband will not try to throw her out condition arise for it, आज भी इंडिया के मिडिल क्लास सिटी में बहुत से पति सिर्ग घुघट वाली पत्नी चाहते है, कोई भी पति नहीं चाहता की उसकी पत्नी बहार जा कर काम करे , हर पति चाहता है पहले पत्नी घर देखे , ये तो पत्नी ही जिद करती है की मै भी जॉब करुँगी तुम्हारी सैलरी सेव होगी आदि आदि. फिर यही बात दोनों की या परिवार की परेशानी बन जाती है , The girl is very innocent, she comes with pure intention, and with a lot of love in heart for husband, but cause of such stupid type problem husband try to spoil her life, then what option for ??? ओनली आप्शन अगर फॅमिली या पति नहीं चाहते की वो जॉब करे तो घर संभाले , और अगर जॉब करना जरुरी है तो फॅमिली या पति की सहमती ले ले की मै जब के साथ घर का काम नहीं कर सकती , इतनी सैलरी है इसमें से घर काम के लिए कोई नौकरानी रखो नहीं तो मै जॉब छोड़ देती हु , सब सिंपल आप्शन और सलूशन है अगर निकलने चाहे तो निकल जायेंगे नौकरी करने का ये मतलब नहीं की फॅमिली लाइफ और शादीशुदा जिन्दगी को दाव पर लगा कर पैसा कमाया जाये, रही लव एंड केयर की बात तो पातीं भी उसे उसके उम्मीद से जादा प्यार करता है अपने खानदान की बहु बनता है , अपने घर में भरोसे से लाता है की वो उसकी जिंदिगी में तरकी लाएगी , घर संभालेगी कोई भी पति ये सोच कर शादी नहीं करता की पत्नी कमाएगी तब ही उसका घर चलेगा , and now if she take help of law then we say she is wrong. अगर झूट बोल कर कानून का सहारा लेगी तो ये तो गलत है ही झूटे केस लगाना क्या सही है ये आप ही सोचो ? फिर जवाब दो. क्या आप चाहेंगी की आप की भाई पर फालसे ४९८ अ , डी वी , केस लगे अगर केस सही तो कोई बात नहीं कानून की मदद लो झूटे कैसो के कारन सही लोगो को भी न्याय नहीं मिल पता , ये तो आप जानते भी हो और मानते भी हो , और उन्ही लडकियों को बाहर किया जाता है जो कानून का झुटा सहारा लेने की कोशिस करती है या कानून का झुटा सहारा लेती है. मुझे नहीं लगता की कोई सही सच्ची बहु को घर के बहार निकलता होगा , यहाँ हम बात कर रहे है डिसेंट फ़मिलिएइस की फोर्थ क्लास दारू पीने वालो की नहीं, इसमें भी ५ % अपवाद छोड़ कर “

Hum q bhul jate he ki jab hum kisi ko apnate he to sirf achchiyi hi nahi uski har burai k sath apnate he , or jab koi burai samne ati he to hum sahan nahi krte”

यही बात लड़की को भी सोचनी चाहिए की हम किसी को अपनाते है तो......................................... लाइफ हमेश रील लाइफ , सपनो वाली दुनिया नहीं होती, रील लाइफ और रियल लाइफ में हमेशा जमीन आसमान का अंतर होता है ये बात लड़की को भी समझनी चाहिए, हर पति सर अपनी फॅमिली को व्यवस्थित चाहता है , डेकोरेशन टी वि , फ्रिज सोफा सेट , के अरमान सर लड़कियों के ही जादा होते है लडको के नहीं , जिसके लिए वो जॉब करती है

ब्रेड बटर एंड शेल्टर मिल सके ये तो शादी के समय लड़की के माँ बाप पहले ही देख लेते है तभी लड़के को सेलेक्ट किया जाता है और शादी की जाती है लड़की की भी रजा मंदी ले ली जाती है कोई भी लड़की निकम्मे या न कमाने वाले से शादी नहीं करती

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