THIS IS A SERIOUS MATTER . I NEED HELP.
MY WIFE IS STAYING IN A SEMI GOVT SCHOOL HOSTEL WHERE SHE IS WORKING. HER SCHOOL IS NEAR HER PARENTS HOUSE BUT AS THE SCHOOL IS A RESIDENTIAL SHE HAVE TO STAY IN THE HOSTEL. SHE GAVE BIRTH TO A BABY WHO IS 3 MONTH OLD. SHE IS NOT WILLING TO RETURN TO MY HOME. I HAVE SENT LETTERS, SMSs AND PHONE. BUT SHE IS NOT READY TO RETURN. SHE JOINED THE SERVICE DURING HER PREGNANCY PERIOD WITHOUT INFORMING OR DISCUSSING WITH ME. NOW SHE IS GIVING ME CERTAIN TERMS AND CONDITIONS TO RETURN TO MY HOUSE. THAT I HAVE TO STAY SEPARATELY , LEAVING MY 72 YRS OLD WIDOW MOTHER. BECAUSE SHE IS SAYING THAT SHE IS HAVING ADJUSTMENT PROBLEM WITH MY MOTHER-IN-LAW. THAT I HAVE TO GIVE MY FULL (IF NOT FULL ATLEAST 85%) OF MY SALARY TO HER EVERY MONTH AND OTHER TERMS AND CONDITIONS ALSO. ETC ETC. UNDER THESE TERMS AND CONDITIONS IF I DONT AGREE THEN SHE WILL NOT RETURN. SHE IS NOT READY FOR MUTUAL DIVORCE CONSENT. SHE WILL NOT GIVE ME DIVORCE AS WELL. IF I WANT DIVORCE THEN I HAVE TO FILE FOR DIVORCE. SHE IS SAYING THAT SHE IS DOING FAVOUR ON TO ME BY NOT FILING ANY MAINTENANCE CASE AS YET.
IF I FILE RCR WHAT WILL HAPPEN. IF SHE REFUSES RCR THEN WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO HER. SHE IS THREATENING ME THAT SHE CAN CLAIM MAINTENANCE FROM ME BY LEAVING HER GOVT SERVICE WHILE THE CASE WILL BE CONTESTED IN THE COURT. I`M WORRIED FOR THE BABY FOR NO FAULT OF HIS. I`M NOT WORRIED ABOUT MYSELF NOR ABOUT MY WIFE. HOW CAN I LEAVE MY WIDOW MOTHER? WHY THESE WIVES LOST THE HUMANITY. CANT THE MAHILA COMMISSION COUNCEL THE WIVES OVER MEDIA. AT TIMES I FEEL COMMITTING SUICIDE.
PLEASE HELP.
