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vinod (Asst manager)     20 September 2013

Wife dont want to come back.

This is in line with my previous post.

I am now facing a new condition from my wife. I went with my wife to her home on rakhi festival. There she express his wish to stay for one month. i said ok & came back alone. In between we have communication but only i call her. she only call me once. Now she is saying that there is no need to come my house & i will not come with you. Reason is she want a child In this situation. she has not even taken his filled case back. Mediators saying that your case is finished from court. Police also have same reply like mediators. But on mediation papers it is written that if her family satisfy with me then only they will take back case.

I know if i go for child i will have to face a new bundle of problems that i have already faced.  when i go for child it is clear she will live with her parents & i will live alone meaningless life because she is lady who live life on his own terms. 

This is her master formula whenever she need something from me she just leave me alone & go to her parents. I looses my happy life, a joint family love, lots of money without reason, a progressive career. Now i have a unhealthy body & mind, full tension, no aim for life. Even General day today problems are now become big problems.

She don't want to divorce me. Their intension is to destroy me in all manner if i not follow her. They make me a puppet. I am stuck in this situation with this lady.  some one please help me so that i can come out from this situation. yes i am a man, struggling with life but is there any end for this? is there any way? Please guide.



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(Guest)

bala tal gayi.


jaan bach gaya samjho.


Sir dard chali gayi samjho.


Bahut lucky ho aap jo biwi bolrahi he ki nahi aayegi.


Yahan toh aise bahut cases hain jahan pe pati bilkul hi nahi chahta ki patani waapas aaye, aur patani bolti, main aatoon aatooooooooon.


(Guest)

If you are a MAN...do the following

1. Send a registered letter or a legal notice asking your wife to comeback to matrimonial home without any further delay. keep the acknowledgement safe with you.
2. keep talking to her on mobile and record all the conversation with your wife and in-laws
3. Give her a week's time and send another similar letter.
4. keep sending some amount like 5k/month or so for her expenses.
5. If you have any of her sthreedhan, then shift it to a unknown locker.
6. file an NCR in the local police station stating the facts that your wife willfully left the matrimonial home.
7. wait for a month or so and send a divorce notice(MCD)

She can use any of the weapons during this time but if the relationship doesnt work then it is better to 'fail fast'
let her do whatever she wants to do, if she file's false case, face it like a MAN.

Dont sit like a duck one day or other you need to fight.


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