Hi,
We are married for about 9 years with 2 kids - 8 and 6.We have had our differences from the start on small things.Recently, we had big differences due to small issues and we stopped talking to each other for almost one year.She disrespected my mother couple of times when she tried to make her understand things.She is a housewife.
Two weeks back, i booked her tickets to visit my mother who was not well.She travelled with my kids and later got down at her mothers house which is near to my hometown.When I called her, she said she is not coming back to me or my house.She is not allow me to talk to kids also.I tried calling her many times but she will not pick the telephone.I live in hyderabad and our hometown is in north india so not easy for me to travel immdiately.
After 3 days she withdrew a relatively big amount of money from our common account.And she is not picking up phone.I have now stopped calling her and plan to visit north india in 2 weeks time.
I have never hit her or anything but we have had arguments as in a normal household.
I'm worried abot my kids and their future and our relationship future.She has taken such a big step.I'm the only earning person and have monetory commitments.My question is that if she can take such a step as to withdraw money without my knowledge and leave me with kids and not allowing me to even talk to me, she can very well file a domestic violence case against me so that she can stay at her mothers house and get money for kids education.She took their passports too.
Please help me in understanding what should I do.If she puts a domestic violence case, what should I do.Due to my job, travelling for attending cases will be impossible.
All your suggestions on this domestic act and my rights are most welcome.
Regards,