All three cases are separate cases. 498A and DV has different jurisdiction. What best you can do, is request the high court, that she only desirous to quash lower court divorce order, to blackmail you as by this she will create pressure on you in 498A as until 498A is there and divorce is also there, in case of 498A, the probability of Jail is lower in that court. However, DV case is a case where the order has to be given for maintenance or other protection order so as per section 24 of the new development regard, you can file a application that since you are divorced, DV has only maintenance grant and protection order vested, hence, since you are not living with your ex, so protection itself doesn't matter as nobody got police guard all time. Max court order you to not contact with her and that is surely you are not doing nor desirous to do that. MOREOVER, IF SHE IS WORKING SO NO MAINTENANCE, HENCE ONLY PROTECTION ORDER IS ONLY OPTION AS RESULT OF DV.
As far as it is concern for 498A, now with new judgement of SC recently, arrest is likely to be difficult and hence, proving 498A is again another issue. USE SHALEEN KABRA VS KABRA's High Court judgement where the cross argument is now necessary on both side to prove that there were any physical violence...
ADVISE: HAVE PATIENCE, AS WE LOOSE PATIENCE IN COMPARISION TO WOMAN. WAIT AND FIGHT CONTINUING THERE.
RECENT ARTICEL OF TIMES OF INDIA STATES THAT DIVORCEE WOMAN ARE DOUBLE IN % TERMS IN COMPARISON TO DIVORCED MEN, WHO ARE WAITING FOR THE REMARRIAGE....
SO DON'T WORRY...IF WOMAN'S HAS DECIDED TO WASTE THEIR LIFE FOR THEIR EGOS AND PARENTS, MONEY ONLY.............THEN NO ISSUE...WE ARE ALSO NOT DINOSAURS, WHOSE BREED IS GOING TO COLLAPSED.. SO FIGHT ALL CASES AND TRY TO REACH TO SUPREME COURT AND HIGH COURT AS TRIAL COURT AND SESSION COURTS ARE BURDENED WITH SO MANY REPEATED CASES THAT HOPING FOR GETTING ANY RELIEF IS NEXT TO IMPOSSIBLE.
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