i got married on 2004 and i got a male child on2005, after that she did not come back to live with me.In the year 2006 she told me, she will not come and live with me, then i moved court on 2007 for restitution of conjugal rights,the court finally given order to live with me on June2007. But she had not come on still date,i filled a divorce on april2010 ,now she is making lot time to reply and post pone the dates ,i want to get her divorce from her ,what are the legal option to get divorce and not pay maintance to her( she is working), i am ready to pay my son maintance.please help me detail.