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Reetika (NA)     11 August 2010

What to do?

What a girl like me,who has stepped in age of more than 26, needs to do? My parents have no tuning since they got married and in all this my mother has has lived all sadastic life.
Now at tis point of time,when my parents are only concered of their daily fights i am totally neglected in their eyes that they have to fix alliance also.They are not looking forward.And if i will keep a proposal they would skrew me up.

Just in general,(without any personal concens) i need an opinion do i take some step? If i will seek for some step there would be a disatser in my life. and cant c myself getting older in this house.What to do?



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Arup (UNEMPLOYED)     11 August 2010

please get married with some suitable person.

you will get mental relief.

two suggestion from an elder:

clearly tell him everything before marriage & do not believe him (on his promise to marry), till the marriage over.

Arup (UNEMPLOYED)     11 August 2010

start a small business or find a suitable job.

it is need of the hour that every female should financially self dependent.


(Guest)

1. Get out as fast as possible from a Legal Forum and enjoy your youth.

 

2. Education (vocational studies) will help oneself in standing on ones own feet in today's competitive / expecting world.

 

3. Set priorities in life what comes first; a self relience (job with independent income) and or a cameleon husband or both or lifes' important steps as one pleases !

 

4. Trust mentoring by seeing oneself as your mentor; a person who has seen the world better than you and seek the mentors neutral guidence on important decision of your life.

 

5. Take a bold calulated step outside four broken walls with wide open eyes minus rainbow glasses on, you will be all right.

 

6. Your four broken walls is makign you feel getting older otherwise the outside world is still young at heart, start beliving in yourself so you will start feeling it too and life's horizon will change............


7. Start (24 X 7) practising ISHQ ha ha

I = Initiative (a point comes when one has to show initiative in life)
S = Speed (with initiative speed follows in life)
H = Horizon (with initiative and speed with you, your worldy horizon exapands in day-to-day life)
Q = Quality (with initiative, speed and experiencing the wide horizon, quality of once life improves)


All the best..........

PS. So afterall this was your first question ;-?


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