Post 498a and making verbal complaints on husband's work
Victor
(Querist) 18 March 2016
This query is : Resolved
History: This is on a non working house wife & her parents, booked 498a at 5 different PS since 2004 and later compromised in lok adalat in a metro court in 2012.
2013 feb went to see a her relative's funeral in AP but took a wrong direction train,landed in Maharashtra unconscious after taking excess medication as given by psychiatrist. The local police admitted into a govt hospital and luckily no case booked on husband or his family.
And 2015 on petty argument /reasons she called police at home, but they did not book any case but advised to compromise.
Now 2016 since many days she is getting some consistent calls from husband's office esp unknown ladies giving all sorts of negative reports on husband, some politics by these girls/ladies not sure on their motives nor their names. Nor wife ready to reveal their names/stories.
Meanwhile wife starting believing those cooked stories , questioning on every hour while at work in office.
Consequently it has become very difficult to manage the office work and balance work-home life. Many times sudden unplanned leaves to be applied to stay at home to prove that there is no sexual meetings in office with the ladies she is thinking of.
Now if this continues & next possibly is to resign ,look for another pvt job which is very difficult to a job or worst case become UN-employee.
What is the right the husband have, to work peacefully or deal in this situation ?? and husband is sole bread winner for family of wife plus two young children?????
Experts I look you as a God through valuable direction and relief.
rajagopal.s
(Expert) 18 March 2016
Hi Victor
the best way would be to take your wife and children to your office so that they understand the work culture and environment in office.
Many women who have negative mindset and who bode ill bearings against the society in general , presume that office environment is place for men and women having sex at office, which is unfortunate.
So to overcome that take your wife and children to your office once or twice during your office events or atleast they can come pick you up or drop you at office. once they see your office environment and see the way employees interact with each other, then these fears naturally subside.
Also tell your wife that you will speak to her when free during working hours. be firm on this .
hope this helps.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 18 March 2016
Presently it seems psychological problem rather legal problem. Take help of near relatives, family friends etc. for amicable and acceptable solution.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 19 March 2016
Yes, the wife needs urgent medical treatment.This is more a martial problem which has not taken legal overtone as yet.
Take her to Doctor/psychiatrist and marriage counselor.
The wife would surely recover after medical and psychological intervention and everything will falling place then.
Best of luck.
