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BIJU (Customer Support)     27 July 2011

2nd Marriage after wife's death

My father-in-law whose age is 69 want to marry now and my mother-in-law expired about 5yrs back. Now my father-in-law is trying to separate his son & daughters from the family to get married and he has started looking for alliance. Kindly advise how can we stop him from the 2nd marriage. He is trying to spread roomers that his son is not looking after him, but the fact is that he is trying to avoid his son. Almost 95% relatives are against my father-in-law. Do we have any options to legally fight against him to stop for 2nd marriage. There are two houses one was in mother-in-laws name & other is in father-in-laws name. Even if we do not have any option to stop him for 2nd marriage, will he able to do something on these properties. Will have any rights fight and get both properties.

Looking forward for valuable your advise



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(Guest)

Why would you stop him from marrying? If you it is legally wrong.  Person has all legal right to marry once his first wife is no more.

 

You guys need to look within. it is your greed of his wealth - you are fearing that his wealth may be divided with new wife.

 

Get over it,  it is you who are on fault here.

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BIJU (Customer Support)     27 July 2011

Thanks for your reply

Need more clarity, why are we on fault. We are ready to take care of him and he just want to simply avoid us. Even if he decides to marry, will he has rights to give complete property to new wife or will have equal rights ?     As mentioned in my earlier note, one property is still in my mother-in-laws name and other one is in father-in-laws name.


(Guest)

His property is his.. he can decide whom to pass this. Also, he is also legal receipent of his first wife property. If he does not want to share it with you too bad for you.

 

If is he who need to decide in whose hand he is safe and who can take care of him better not you. Stop harassing an old man for your greed.

BIJU (Customer Support)     27 July 2011

Hi

Pls do not mistake me as my father-in-law's attitude is not at all digestable and no away we are harassing him. He has thown out of his son from house without any mistake and he is trying to create problems

I would seek others also to respond on my note and give valuable suggestion


Thanks in advance

Anonymous11 (Architect)     27 July 2011

Dear Biju, looking it from outside , had the guy been so selfish, crazy or characterless , he would have probably done some wonders in the past also but what is visible is he managed to raise his kids sensibly, have them find appropriate life partners and move on in their life. Also he remained committed to his wife and didn't remarry for 5 years even after the death of his 1st wife and now if he is making his mind,certainly there are grey ares which you are not putting forward to. For the legal part the above gentleman has already replied but if you wish to hear something (good advice) I think you need to tell the complete story.

In anycase , it's his life and he can do whatever he finds correct in his own interest as his kids have move on in their lives. I think he just need a bit of support and love of all of you. That's the only way to keep his property

hope it helps

rgds


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