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praveen kumar m   01 April 2016

About marriage

dear seniours.. my name is praveen.. i have an family issue with my marriage.. im hindu from karnataka bangalore.. i love a girl.. my relationship with her is like this.. [ ME -> my father-> my fathers mother (grandma)-> my grandmas brother -> his daughter -> and his grand child(she)] is this legal to marry her or how can i marry her in legal way.. we love each other.. but relatives says u guys are like brother and sister.. is it mentioned in prohibited relationship.. which condition is it to check out.. plz do need..


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praveen kumar m   01 April 2016

Try to add value to the discussion, with your each post.

praveen kumar m   01 April 2016

Thank you fr giving ur time to me.. Sir clearly saying my grandma and her grandpa are siblings..

praveen kumar m   01 April 2016

Thank you fr giving ur time to me.. Sir clearly saying my grandma and her grandpa are siblings..

Rama chary Rachakonda (Secunderabad/Telangana state Highcourt practice watsapp no.9989324294 )     01 April 2016

Certain rules are enjoined by Hindu Law to prevent incestuous marriage. They have been modified by the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 to some extent:

According to Smritis (e.g. Yajnavalkya Smriti) 7 degrees on the father’s side and 5 degrees on the mother’s side are prohibited degrees of relationship for a marriage. The Mitakshara, Vijnanesvara’s commen­tary on Yajnavalkya Smriti, explains how these degrees are to be counted. If the relationship of A is being traced A himself is counted as one degree weather in a line of ascent or in a line of descent. If there is a common ancestor the line diverges from him.

In such a case the common ancestor is also to be counted as one degree. Thus as regards collateral relations, we have to trace relationship through the common ancestor and he is to be reckoned as one degree. Balambhatti, the commentary on the Mitakshara, has elucidated the matter further.

Two collaterals can be treated as Sapindas only if with respect to each of them the common ancestor is within the limits of 7 or 5 degrees, ascent being traced, as the case may be, through the male or female line.

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Exceptions Recognised by Customs:

Custom has engrafted upon this rule some exceptions. The great sage Baudhayana recognised that in Southern India maternal uncle’s daughter and paternal aunt’s daughter are treated as eligible for marriage. This is based upon local custom or Desa Achara.

In the Vedas there is a text which means “Oh Indra! We offer to you the fat seasoned in the ghee that is thy portion, as the maternal uncle’s daughter or paternal aunt’s daughter is one’s lot in marriage”. This is cited in support of the validity of such marriages. But the better basis for such marriages is local custom. In Andhra Pradesh sister’s daughter is regarded by custom as eligible for marriage.

In this way to a certain extent the rule as to degrees of prohibited relationship has been departed from by customary practices. A custom obnoxious to public policy and morality may be rejected. Thus in Balusami v. Balakrishna, AIR 1957 Mad. 97, a custom to marry daughter’s daughter was held to be invalid.

praveen kumar m   01 April 2016

Thank you for giving me so much of details.. Suggst me a legal way to marry her in special marriage act.. Coz I have a common sense of like not marrying my father's brothers(uncle) daughter and vice versa mother's sisters daughter(aunty).. In relation they wil be my brother n sister.. But in my situation it's almost nt, then how they say she is my sis n I'm her bro.. My father was suppose to marry her mom it seems.. But it dint happen, my fatehr got married to someone, and her mom married to someone.. Then whrs this brother and sister point coming from..

praveen kumar m   01 April 2016

Thank you for giving me so much of details.. Suggst me a legal way to marry her in special marriage act.. Coz I have a common sense of like not marrying my father's brothers(uncle) daughter and vice versa mother's sisters daughter(aunty).. In relation they wil be my brother n sister.. But in my situation it's almost nt, then how they say she is my sis n I'm her bro.. My father was suppose to marry her mom it seems.. But it dint happen, my fatehr got married to someone, and her mom married to someone.. Then whrs this brother and sister point coming from..

praveen kumar m   01 April 2016

Thanks fr the reply... Sir it is because so I can live with her happily:-) no one shud disturb us.. We can say them we are in legal way... So..

praveen kumar m   01 April 2016

Thanks for the reply... Sir it is coz I want to live an happy life with her.. So no one can disturb us.. I can say them we are legally married...

praveen kumar m   01 April 2016

:-( so no way for me at all

praveen kumar m   01 April 2016

Shud I cheat her:-(

praveen kumar m   02 April 2016

Gudaftrnoon this all replies I'm getting is by lawyers r just like me

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