prvns 31 March 2017
prvns 31 March 2017
prvns 31 March 2017
You say you got married Jan 2016 and within few weeks she got pregnant. Can you 100% be sure that baby is born to you? Did you do DNA testing? Why am saying this is because, all of a sudden her behaviour changes, and you dont seem to know the reason why. And you call it love marriage also. Was she in love with someone else ? I sincerly doubt valid child. You can do DNA test.
Few months later your wife will come up with one thread on any of the legal forums, can I change name of biological father and use my dads name instead ie my maiden name?
See, I am not trying to spoil your mind here. These kind of cases and situations I see in court daily and on online forums on daily basis. All such evidence you will need to collect in order to secure yourself a divorce, in case your wife does not agree for MCD under 13B of Hindu Marriage Act.
Sooner or later these will be the very points on which you will file divorce. Valid points or invalid, but advocates usually use mirch masala and file petition with all sorts of concoted stories is another undeniable truth I see everyday in courts.
Anyhow if you guys have agreed then go ahead with mutual divorce.
But what about child? if child is not yours your property etc cant be given to it when it turns 18. If child is yours it takes all share in property. So dont keep anything in your name ever.
No safegaurding against anything when it comes to blows from Indian wife/women.
Very sensitive issue. Please tread carefully. Talk to wife, see how it looks, if things appear to get fine, then continue with marriage. Dont spoil it. At no point directly make a allegation and get into a fix or altercation with either wife or the in-laws.
You may keep in touch with me.
prvns 31 March 2017
Originally posted by : Adv Rit Arora | ||
@helping Hand are you a lawyer or agony aunt. Keep your opinion to the facts and dont pollute the minds of the querists. Kindly keep in mind this is a legal forum |
What more optiions are available for warring couple than take divorce and move on? I dont think you have read my reply properly. Anyway, its not just duty of a Lawyer to simply suggest legal method to get over the problem or get into a newer problem but try to solve the problem or give solution. You have not done either of it. What makes you simply comment on my reply? Try to help the querist rather than simply post a reply for the sake of posting would be my advise to you.
stanley (Freedom) 31 March 2017
@ author
1. If she is suggesting to go in for divorce than better to go in for Divorce by mutual consent , if it seems that marriage is not going to work out .Get married once again and lead a better life .
2.and if you want visitation rights for the child be carefull that these points are added in the mutual consent instead of crying later on for the same .
3. Try and find out if she has any extra martial relationship as she seems very desperate to go in for Divorce .
4. She may be Dad and Moms pet hence she is behaving like this . But she should releaise that mom and Dad will die one day and she has to live her life with the kid . Than finally kid will get married and than she will be all alone and may have to go to an old age home
A walk alone (-) 31 March 2017
Born Fighter (xxx) 31 March 2017
Give ur wife an option to stay with you at a neutral place, away from your inlaws and ur parents/relatives. Thats only way you can save ur marriage, if u want to.
If she is still adamanant start gathering evidences and plan accordingly.
rajuchowdappa 01 April 2017
Kumar Doab (FIN) 05 April 2017
First: Try to save the marriage.
It might be possible to address and remove the misunderstandings and differences.
Kumar Doab (FIN) 05 April 2017
MCD can be quick and easy. You need to settle the terms.
Wife has NO forced share in self acquired estate of husband.
Wife is not Co-parcener in ancestral property.
The estate and earning capacity can be deciding factor for maitainance/alimony.