Amendment in biased laws to save families.

I agree with you but also the provisions of Section 498-A should be made bailable.

you have studied 498 & dv. very much.

thank you very much. i am also one of the victim of 498a.

if each and every bad marriage is going through 498 & DV then . what is use of these laws.

god only help us out.

when was goverment going to wake up...

each an evry day... adding victims to list.

See majority of Indian women sacrifice their career due to prretext of marraiage . not only this she has to change her name and also to relocate in the husband house and most of them are dependent on their husbands for earning. The condition is more alarming when she has children and made every options for the conciliation. Woman leave her maternal home with this notion that husbad will give devotion to her and children If woman sacrifice her parents home and expect only the well wishes of husband

Mainatanace is the basic right of every woman if she is not earning. Husband should think prior to the marraiage whether he can take the responsibility of her wife or not. Woman is not greedy for the alimony but wants that husband should give them life with respect and dignity. This is the ambition of every woman prior to the marraiage and laways looks for grrom having the stability

If amend 498-A defintaely it is the woman who is the sufferer as law is not made on ones day thought. It not biased as it is also used aginst women who are the unmarried sisters and motherin law of the husband so that they too relaised when their daughter get married she will not face cruelty from the side of husband

@ author above,

Which world you are living in, the woman who are not working  are mostly being unemployable and due to not being able to handle work pressure. Others who can,  are working.

I am yet to come across more than finger countable numbers of cases  where husband didn't  want their wife to work, particularly in this inflamatory environment. It is woman who chooses not to work - and why not when all luxuries of  life comes without working for it.?

If girls comes to husband home thinking that husband will be swirl around her aur uskei ekk isharee par nachega .. then it is her problem, Husband has full family and society - and she is expected is ARDHANGINI. She is expected to bear half of responsibility and benifits. 

nice suggestions but its only in paper..if u can forward it to law-drafters then surely it will help many facing and prospective victims.

Dear All,

I have already sent these suggestions to President,PM,Law Minister, MP's,Heads of Newspapers, Senior IAS Officers etc. etc.

Most of them are agreed on these suggestions and have forwarded the same to Ministry of Law and Ministry of Home for further necessary action.

GOD willing very soon some suggestions will be accepted and law will be amended to make it balanced.

You all are also requested to please send representations on similar lines to above persons (PM,MP's,Media persons etc.) through letter,fax,email etc. to make a momentum.

Thanks

If there are large number of followers then only it will going to help

Shri Anna Ji has been contesting for Anti corruption Whether it has been passed by Parliament?

Moreover its a virtual petition

That is why support of all of you is also required.

I actually take offense to this. I am not saying that torture cannot be from both sides, but the odds are against the women's favour- As someone who is suffering immense mental torture, I have this to say. We leave our family homes and our people and live with the husband's family.

We are suddenly asked to change ourselves completely overnight and if we cannot do something according to the in-laws tastes, we aren't capable of anything. Our mother's teach us everything they know and was taught to them, but all that learning is wasted when we go into a new house among strange people who expect us to unlearn everything and learn their ways.. we do that too... We are treated like outsiders because we are not born in the family. Untill we have children, we remain guests. We are supposed to make everyone feel special , no one bothers to give us one special day...All they do is expect us to telepathically know what they want. 

We are expected to adjust and sacrifice(two words I heard the most in my marriage) and not say a word . While anyone comes along and says what they want to and moves on. If anything at all goes wrong , we are conveniently blamed for it. If its not us directly, it must be the bad luck we bring to the family. 

We are expected to work to bring in good money and then at the end of the day return home to cook, clean and look after the kids too. And in all thisif we want to take a breath for ourselves we are told that we are kaamchor. No matter what we do we are misunderstood and boycotted.

We are people who end up living alone with a group of strangers who corner us at every opportunity they get. Marriages are now not marriages at all. It is just a way of securing a dumping bag in the form of a wife and a daughter-in-law.  

Men have the support of their family, we are left alone in the cold. we are twisted and turned till we become what they want. We lose our identities. Do you really want your daughters to end up this way? After all the effort my father put in educating me and gave me so much love, just for me to end up being a doormat. 

And I worked, but after running around at work, I didn't have the strength to run around for the in-laws... a human being has limited energy. No one wanted to share my work load. 

I have gone out in the rain in high fever to bring vegetables while my husband watched cricket. I have been severly sick and no one bothered with me. 

This still happens. Inspite of all the sweet talk- she's our daughter now, she's a member of our family now....please.... It doesn't matter if it's 2012. If we cannot legally define our affliction, we have to choose the one that is closest to it. These laws help us that way. Ask the person who is going through it.

These laws are made by keeping the majority in mind. Nobody wants to end up alone and nobody wants their marriage to end.  Also, one cannot and should not be just allowed to marry and then throw someone out of their lives easily. They should be held responsible. No matter how feminist, a woman has to , at the end of the day look after home as well. she works double shifts. Once, at her company and the second shift at her home. without pay. Maintenance is and should be valid. 

And to those who think this is a matter to joke about...you are not the ones who have to cry alone or contemplate suicide. Just looking at your replies here , would make me not hire people like you for any case. 

Even now I just want some counselling for the husband..  which he is against.  And seriously, those of you talking about equality... can you seriously look into your own homes and lives and declare that everyone has equal rights and all those rights are being utilised ?

I posted it multiple times because I had some trouble with the mouse. I wanted to click on something else, but it clicked on another thing altogether. Anyway. its just technicality. I had written to the forum admin explaining this. 

Now once my systen is fixed I am unable to delete it.

ANYWAY please excuse me for this

WOW ....grow up!

Dear Bhaskar Sir, Hats Off, my cousine is one of the victim of all the misuse of law by a women.  that too at a age when both husband and wife should be together for each other.  Please guide me how my cousin can send his request to political officials of the country.

Sir we are with you and fully agree with you

Dear Bhaskarji...

We would appreciate if you can post the scanned copies of the letters which u have sent to the Hon President, PMO and the law commision.....