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Originally posted by : Ranee....... |
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he could go for divorce or file custody case for the child.It would take time but truth always prevails. He was basically a weak personality, otherwise the life is too beautiful to live ! |
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madam agreed he go for divorce but how much time it took? already it took one year to file for new married ones, then couple shuld live seprate at least two years within this time husband has to face lot of hearing etc etc wastage of money .
if he go for child custody court give only visitation it also not soon till then he is not abel to see his own child , matter decide after child is of 5 or more years till then mother poison the mind of baby and already father missed the child hood of his own, this woman cant and never understand.
here one way is better to kidnap the child. if people go through kanoooooooooon then they get harrased.
many times this happens to wives who are abandoned along with infants by husbands..yet they fight for justice, live for babies.. when husbands abandones wife they never takes babies with them..
@ ranee....
yes you are correct many times but how many times its very few or rare but most of the time the situation is reverse. here also there will be fault of womans who are high ambitious or having other dreams and they leave husband and again blam is on husband. very rare one from thousand case aarise as you saying but in that case also man get harassaed by either way then also he did good for otheres it it just like GAUTAM BUDDHA left by leaving his wife and son ,
but what womnas do or did, either they remary and spend their whole life as second wife or like a kept, becuse in india still second marriage of a girl is difficult and not accepted as like first marriage, or they live like pross earning money in the form of gifts,
any way we diverted from the topic " your suggestion not suitable for all mans because
1] some men are so busy that they cant prefer court
2] some men are try to keep their prestige so they avoid court
3] some men are poor they cant bear court fees
4] some men are busy in their earning so they dont want to waste time in the court.
5] already they lost their goldem time so in latter age they dont want to make rounds of court for such reason'
while girls are ready for this becuase
1] they get a reason for good time pass
2] if they lost they loose nothing
3] they are fighting on fathers money here also man [ father] is the sufferer or brother of boy frnd or new husband like bakra.
4] any how they will get bread butter and shelter easily from father, or some else so they dont have pain they just cry that thier dreams get shattered
but they dont understsand the dreams of husband also get shattered but he is not crying like them.
so madam please suggest fruitul way instead of this leagal way why man should not go for suicide ...................?
