Hi All,
I am from Pondicherry and working in Bangalore now. My wife is also from Pondicherry. We have got married on 2013 and got son on the same year. From the day 1 my mother in law wanted her daughter's hands to be on the upper side in my family and my wife also implemented that in my family. I did not allow that and so we fought often.
In 2015 she left my home for her sister marriage(In Pondicherry) with my son and did not come back. Her parents also supported her and did not take any action for the life of their daughter. Then after 6 months I brought a middle man and brought my wife and son back.
Then also she continued to fight with me and say one or the other thing and keep dominating me. Meanwhile I admitted my son in school. In March 12 again she left home with my son when I was not there. There was a small fight before day but after that we came to normal but suddenly she left home(to Pondicherry). When I went to my son shcool I found that the attendence of my son is not proper(she use to drop my son after I left to office). School teacher also said that my wife has mentioned on 11th of March itself(before fight). So she purposefull fought with me and went.
As usual her parents did not take any action, I have written more than 10 letters but no reply. Then I had given a petition to SP and brought her back on March 2018. Now we are living together in Bangalore. But she is always fighting with me, not allowing my son to sleep with me or to go outside with me. Forcing my son to call me and asking to bring toys to play. My kid is just 4 yrs he does not know how to behave. Whenever he is talking with me he is taking in favour of me. But when his mother is there he is scared to talk. He just supports her.
By thinking my son and my future. Why my son has to get depressed at this age. He is being tortured not to talk with my parents. My wife is scolding my parents in very bad words which I cannot even say here. But they are staying in my native. She has never given respect to me also. Have undergone many tortures. I want to live a peaceful life. I want to divorce my wife.
She use to call her friends and say that me, my mother and my father should die. She says that she was happy when she was in her native and not happy when she is with me. She is saying that I am torturing her. She is projecting me like a psycho to her relatives and friends.
Note:
1. My mother in law asked me to leave my job and come to their home and stay but I refused. This happed just 1 month after marriage.
2. My mother in law asked me to give my son to them. But I refused. This happend in 2014.
3. whever fight comes she used to take knife and harm herself, try to jump from 2nd floor, beat herself.
Queries:
1. How can I send her to native and apply for divorce? Can I give a complaint in Local Police that I am applying for divorce and so ask her to vaccate. If she stays here, she will harm herself and tell that I have done it.
2. From where should I apply for divorce? Pondicherry or Bangalore?
3. In-Laws have only 2 daugthers and have lumpsum money but they never shown outside. They are getting rent from 2 houses. Should I still pay her maintenance. Additional info is my co-brother also is facing the same issue. Can I highlight this in my complaint?
4. What type of proof will the court expect?
Please suggest me.
