Hi,
I seriously dont think you should worry about it so much. First of all when she has reached or has agreed to setlle the same at 7 lakhs irrespective of what. Yes she can go back and tell the court that she is not agreeing for setllement for any reasons. But that can be done before she gets money from you.
The money has to be given to her that too 2 laks on filing of the first motion. So there fore the filing of mutual divorce has to be signed by both the parties.
I would suggest you that you should give the 2 lakh after on the same moment after filing of the mutual divorce application. Your advocate should show hers advocate that he has the money and the same will be handed over after they file it in the court. Make sure that the filing has to be done by her advocate and not yours. Please mention that all pending cases has to be withdrawn which has been filed by either of the parties in any court. Once the filing is done please collect a certified copy of the same which can be filed by you in other courts where she has filed cases against you and you can show that stellement has be done between the parties and as per that setllemet no issues are left and hence the case has to be dropped.
Well these pending cases try and withdraw it before the seciond motion whose period is for 6 months.
But remember once mutual application is filed by both the parties and either of the parties bact track for any reason.. it shall not have that seriousness and the court may not take those offences against you harshly as it may had taken if there was no mutual divorce application. what i mean is that court shall take lenient view and be sure that incase she files any further new cases against you in future it shall not have that force or effect . One can show the intention of the lady is to harass you in ordeer to extract more money from you.
Please do understand that these are legal opinion that any lawyer can give you. But you are the person who can best judge your position and her position. I think you have a kid out of the marriage and if you can afford to give 11 lakhs whatr she demanded and you are capable of giving her even if she has been bad to you. Just think of your own child and forget the ego and think humanly. I think you can judge it well.
All the best
Saurendra Rautray