Mr.Vijay
The crux of the problem is:
1. Appointment on the basis of compassionate grounds is not a right. Banks did give such appointments earlier. Later it found the same as a permanent liability and would affect in maintaining quality staffing pattern. Hence it found this ex-gratia scheme according to which if an employee dies in harness, certain lumpsum amount would be paid to the legal heirs instead of taking one family member for employment on compassionate grounds. The lumpsum would be handed over to all the legal heirs together whereas the benefit of such appointment would be for one only and there is no guarantee that he/she would take care of the remaining legal heirs of deceased employee.
2. The Bank is right in saying that you people have not applied in time for ex-gratia. No liability can be perennial and there should be an end for such liability. This is in accordance with the Limitation Act. Hoping for appointment, you people have ignored to apply for ex-gratia in time.
3. Your father died in harness i.e., during his service. At least some of his friends would have helped you people in these matters. I do not understand the reason for coming of such help from his friends. Either you have not approached them, or you would have not listened their advice. When we live society, at least we have four friends. Four are required to take us to the right place when our life comes to an end.
4. Castigating community bias, comparing your case with uncaught fraudsters will not give you any relief.
5. Even now, I advice you that all of you legal heirs together go to the Circle Office and meet the Head (Might be Dy.General Manager) and request for ex-gratia in a polite way. Though the time period is over, they may accept the application and settle the ex-gratia.
6. Regarding loan deductions, I do agree with experts that the Bank should not have recovered any amount once the full and final settlement advice is given to you and the the residual amount is credited to the legal heirs account. Bank does not have any right to recover Rs.100000 straight away from the account without even giving a notice. What would have happened is - this recovery is towards bank's loan. It might be a recovery which had to be effected through salary deduction like Employees Credit Society loan/Employees benevolent fund loan etc. Bank might not be aware of the outstandings at the time of full and final settlement. Later when they approached the Bank, Bank might have effected the recovery as funds were available in the account which is wrong. As you are telling Rs.60000 dues are credit society dues. Bank can not deduct from the account on its own. Like wise you should ascertain the details of earlier recovery of Rs.100000/-. Some of your father's known friends will help your family. Approach them.
7. As regards legal remedy - No right for compassionate appointment.
Regarding Ex-gratia - you can request the higher authorities or the bank to exonerate the delay in submitting the application. By all probability they may accept the application. - If they do not heed, you can file Writ in the High Court for Ex-gratia. But you should procure the guidelines for payment of ex-gratia through some of your father's friends. Otherwise apply for guidelines under RTI Act. You can even ask for the details of Compassionate Ground appointments during the period from the death of your father to till now under RTI Act.
Regarding earlier recovery of Rs.100000/-. Now you cannot do anything.
Regarding their harassment for payment of credit society loan Rs.60000/-. Politely reply to the bank, you are not liable to pay the amount and no reminders should be sent to you.
Firmness is different and Politeness is different. If you do not request politely people will not help you. This does not mean that you should forego your legal rights. Legal battle with take lot of time for final verdict. Hence try to avoid as far as possible and resort to it only if there is no other way.
Hope you are well equipped. With these tips, you can go to any local advocate and show your record to him in case if you are forced to fight a legal battle.
My best wishes to your family.