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Received Justice (Accounts)     31 August 2012

Careless wife

Hi All,

I need advice for the cutody of my 5 years old son. I do not have good understanding with my wife from 1st day of marriage. Situations goes worse day by day. We have son 5yrs old. He is studying in KG & I was getting regulars complaints from his class teacher that he is not  getting lunch, no copies in bag, no pencils etc.Last time class teacher told me that he is not improving in his study but getting down day by day. My son is going to tuition from Play way & I am working in Pvt company so could not pay attention to her studis. My wife MSC BED taking tuition bt not paying attention towards his son. Then I Decided to admt him in day care but again my wife interfers. She to van driver to drop him home but she was not at home. Van driver as usual dropped him at gound floor gate (as my wife is not coming down to pick son), My son saw lock at door & then he visited my friend in another building from terrace. He called him & my friend takes care of him. in Mean while I was calling to my wife bt she was not picking my phone. Now I finally sent him hostel last week, but I m sure she will again interfers. So pls advice me , as I did not want to spoil my son's life due to our bad relations. Can she claim custody as beig name of mother only or court will see his welfare & keep him in hostel.



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 2 Replies

stanley (Freedom)     31 August 2012

The courts look into welfare of the child . But both of you being the  father and she as the mother can claim custody of the child . Where in one  wins custody  and the other can get visitation rights . If you dont have the time to see basic necessities of the child and your wife too is ignoring the same  than  hire a maid to look after the child and your  petty issues can be resolved .Putting the child in a hostel is the last option since the child goes far away from  both the parents at a very tender age .  

Never Give Up (Fighter)     31 August 2012

Really sad story.

 

I would suggest instead of getting into legal battle for this, try to devote more time with kid. Look for option in job / business who can give you some more time to spend with kid. You may also opt for full time female care taker at home who can take care of the kid.

 

You may consider calling your parents home so kid would have their company.

 

Putting kid in to hostel is another good option but it should be consider as a last option.

 

Mean while keep on recording your conversations with your wife regarding kid's upbringing. Who knows it would help you in case something legal starts.

 

All the best !


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