Found the Happiness (Enjoying) 15 January 2013
rajiv_lodha (zz) 15 January 2013
Congratulation from my heart that u r rehabilitated. But some real issues are to be addressed..........she used all available weapons to terrorise u all these yrs. Her family supported her & her advocates were unleashed against u. When all her weaponary was exhausted, her hair started gyeying, she felt the heat of humiliation from her family n society, her father found it difficult to remarry her, her child grew difficult 2 handle, power of time drained her energy.........SIMPLY SHE WAS ABLE TO SEE A DARK HOLE IN HER LIFE AHEAD..........SHE CAME BACK TO YOU TO BE ACCEPTED BACK
Sorry to say, but it was a MIRACLE to her rather than u that she got this treatment!
Few days have passed since u reunited, Its too premature to tell that ur life is HAPPY GO LUCKY ONCE AGAIN! Though my sincere wishes are for ur harmonious life ahead, but it requires a lion's heart to take such terrorist back into ur life especially the way she was.
My heart cries for those who took back these terrorists out of emotional outbursts, child-sympathy etce etc......BUT HAD TO PAY WITH THEIR LIVES as things took the other way down the lane.
Gud Luk
radhika (housewife) 15 January 2013
WOW........ i have been reading your post... its good to know tht you got your family back.... I am so happey for you... God bless you and your family... may u get all happiness in your life... GOOD.... but see u are genuine and ur love is true... tht why god has helped you... and u got it back.... good ... :) keep smiling....
JASWANT VIJAY AGNIHOTRI (AIR ARMY) 15 January 2013
Till her guilty when she said sorry......you were proceeding with ego.....but dont aspect u will surely eat halwa tomorrow. i am happy that u did well, but what about to be sure when a woman files 498a after 3-4 childs born, it is not completed 3 days,be aware it may turn in revenge......
u believe in magic then what magic u aspected in 2 years and seen u cannot explain in words, the magic of DV but what happened when your parents be jailed in 498a inspite of DV. will all your ego and emotions will burn and there will be no taste in- HALWA.
u did for your daughter, but when she filled DV, did she thought its effect. was it a true love.....what the role of her parents,, has she thought why her mummy is living with her father.......? these all are the ways to make a husband under control bcause law is inspiring them. will u like to go back her native home with feelings as usual....?
I am sure that my story also will end like this but her mother is more agressive and did all. Her delivery is due in feb2013. i forgiven more than 12-20 times but she couldnt understand it. she beaten me and her brothers too. her mother called neighbours and they abused and threaten me.
My wife didnot talked me since 7-8 months but i am sending sad and jocks SMS daily and calls once in a week but no response till now....she is doing all for her b/f. i know him well and met. she said me not to live with me and divorce....? enjoy your happyness in your bound limits.
JASWANT VIJAY AGNIHOTRI (AIR ARMY) 15 January 2013
CHANGE YOUR NAME TO- 'A HAPPY VICTIM''
victim (master) 15 January 2013
NO COMMENTS.
Msk-need -nuetral- laws (self) 15 January 2013
sure, now your life will be better , from your reading what i understood is your wife realised the true face of some people and importance of "husband first, rest everyone else".
Whatever, wish, happy life with you forever.
And all women reading, who think of 498a, DV should realise at 45 they will beleft alone, by chance kids come to know the state of life, they will ditch or they use it to their advantge of "no father" situation.
I suggested many in thsi forum the same, but few women went ahead, sure one day either to seek husband help or live in society alone and crying inside, continuing with 498a, DV
jayakumar.R (ADVOCATE & LEGAL CONSULTANT) 15 January 2013
Congrats
Samuel (CEO) 15 January 2013
Enjoy the HALWA bro!
Nina Rakheja (unhappily married) 15 January 2013
Congrats...ultimately everything is governed by sentiments-emotions
Never Give Up (Fighter) 15 January 2013
Please wait for 4-5 years and then post your opinion about this compromised life. I would be more interested in that.
In plain sense, you said after filing cases you got in to business and business took off well..hence lot of money which she dont have access due to litigations. Now she jumped and came back to enjoy luxury lifestyle..whats new..every b*tch (read litigating wife) wants it..
My apologies if my wording/post hurts.
Samuel (CEO) 15 January 2013
Yes Hurts!
Why this could not be in other way of emotional involved and broke out of saved love?
It is not necessarily required all erred Wife shd be punished, Situation and circumstances can be considered based on the true sentiments.
I feel little unsecure that our Author is over excited and need to be cautious! I appreciate his courage.
RAMESH (MANAGER) 15 January 2013
radhakrishna (employee) 15 January 2013
Once a Snake will always be a snake------------keep a watch. A snakes poison will not affect the snake but--------
harsh asthana (advocate) 15 January 2013
all is well that ends well