I see in this forum most of the people are victims of gender biased laws and most of them are Hindus who are somehow trapped in a relationship from which they have no way to exit without paying a Huge extortion money or wasting time and money running after court.
There is no doubt that everyone from President to Chaparasis are all very well aware about the misuse of these laws but its the Indian way of life and nothing going to change.We all know that bribe and corruption is part of our culture which even Annaji could not stop.If you guys do a property transaction anywhere in India you always show lower value and pay minimal tax and you get this done paying few thousand to lawyers,registry officer etc and this is how it works.
I am here going to give you some tips which some Members will no like but this is the best escape route for those who are trapped in Hindu Marriage Act.If you had only a ceremonial Hindu marriage and it is not yet registered and you have not signed any document stating your religion while getting married then with paying few thousand you can easily get a backdated religious conversion certificate from a Church or Mosque also notarised and affidavit everything and this is fully legal and accepted by every Indian court.Using this you can make your Hindu marriage invalid and none of the cases can bother you.