This is a long discussion but here's the procedure in a nutshell. Its not exhaustive but indicative of what will follow... I am NOT an advocate. This is my understanding based upon my own experience and some reading.
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== Opposing party submits WS.
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== Judge "frames issues." In other words, narrows the dispute.
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== Petitioner submits Affidavit.
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== Cross examination of Petitioner begins.
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== Respondent submits Affidavit.
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== Cross examination of Respondent begins.
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== Other witnesses are examined.
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== Evidence stage is closed after all evidence and witnesses are presented.
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== Trial closed.
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== Judge sets date for arguments.
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== Arguments made. Make sure that you submit written arguments, whether asked or not.
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== Judge issues Final Judgement and decree. Case closed. Judge now has no jurisdiction to do anything in the case. Jurisdiction is transferred to appellate court if an appeal is filed.
There are many other applications that can be filed (at any stage or some are only allowed at certain stages), such as application for interim relief (e.g. interim maintenance), application to frame additional issues or amend the issues, application to issue witness summons (to bring a witness, e.g. Bank Officer to provide financial statement and history of the wife's/husband's accounts), application to recall a witness, application to present new evidence not available earlier, etc. As you can see, if a party wants to prolong the case, there are SO MANY avenues to do so! Additionally, most Family Court judges are junior ones and are not sophisticated in matters of law. If you try to present many judgments and legal theories, they get bowled and you will see that your case will get prolonged even further. Family Court judges do not like to deal with advanced legal theories. The dumber the parties and their advocates, the faster the case moves in Family Courts.
Most advocates keep litigants in the dark making the entire process look like a black-box. Actually, as you can see, it is simple and surprisingly logical. I wish I had this info when I entered Family Court. You owe me a cup of coffee for enlightening you on this... -:)