I want to disown my parents

You don't have to disown your parents for now. If you are Hindu, get married in a Temple or any Arya Samaj Office and apply for registration of marriage same time, which is very legal. You may approach local police station with the record of your marriage and seek protection from your parents for you and your spouse. Subsequently with the passage of time, if things do not change, you may think of disowning them.

MY PARENT ARE DISOWNING ME AND I WANT TO BE DISOWNED..THEY HAVE TOLD THE BOYS FAMILY TO SIGN THAT FROM THIS DATE THEY HAVE TAKEN OVER ME AND ALSO WITHIN 2 MONTHS FROM THIS DAY WE SHALL GET MARRIED,IS IT A TRAP?

 I AM MORE WORRIED ABOUT BOYS SAFETY,CAN I FREELY GO TO HIS HOME BEFORE MARRIAGE(AFTER THEY DISOWN ME)DO I NEED TO DECLARE THIS IN COURT OR MAKE DIARY IN POLICE STATION?SO THAT TAUGI DOESNT IMPLICATE FALSE CASE?
AFTER MARRIAGE I WILL GO TO COURT..MY CONCERN IS BEFORE MARRIAGE TIME PERIOD,CAN I MARRY IN MANDIR?IS IT LEGAL..ARYA SAMAJ SAYS 1 RELATIVE FROM GIRL SIDE REQUIRED

I presume that when your parents disown you, what they must be meaning that they do not want to keep any relationship with you an perhaps even disinherit you from the property share, that's what is all about this disowning buizness and nothing more then that. However, the fact remains that by blood, they are your parents and you are their daughter for sake of record. So set aside the subject of disowning for the time being to avoid confusion.

As regards visiting your boyfriend before marriage, while you are still in your parents house, even if you disown each other, will not be easy as they are hostile to your relationship with this boy. The only option left to you is to get married as suggest to you earlier and seek police protection subsequently.

dear sir,

you have undertood correctly what they intend to do with me,but a clarification..i will have to walk out of my home on the decided day i sign disown paper with my parents,so my confusion is on the day i walk out,since he has said that he will not take me to his home before we are legally married,so where to stay so as to they dont put a case of kidnap on him as you rightly said they will be hostile to him,he will surely finance my stay

also,should i agree to my dad demand that boys parent must sign that "from this day i went to them and that we will marry within 2 months?.

As soon as you get married as suggested to you earlier, which is legal, you can immediately move with him, and there will be no waiting period as you will have in your hand a  certificate of marriage and also a receipt of application for registration, which may take few days, but in any case that will not make your marriage invalid. Hence, there is no waiting period in marrying but the registration of such marriage may take some time, hence there is no gap as such. The decided day and your marriage will be both on the same day and hence he can take you home on the same day, so cheer up and go ahead. Since your marriage is instant, there is no question of his parents signing any paper. However, you take a declaration from  your parents that you are not carrying any belongings with you to be on the safer side to avoid charges in future.

no use advising you.

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dear sir KP BODA

one lawyer said Mandir marriage is it is not advisable because it can be challenged by the parents,court mariige will take 30 days as i will be allowed to apply on the day i leave my home, and here in my city arya samaj clearly said one relative from the girl side is mandatory and NOC from girls parents,but my parent have refused to give NOC

so advise the legal way to marry on the same day!