I am a 30 year old man. I am continuously harassed by my wife since my marriage in Feb 2014.
I got married in Feb 2014 and my painful life starts the very day. She is torturing me since then. In March i came to delhi along with my wife and only the second day to my office she alleged me of having an affair with girls. I justified her that this is not the case and i assured her about this. But she keeps spying on me. like checking my call details. But this was just the start.
She start fighting on small small issues everyday. Initially i try to bear all this thinking that it is just the adjustment problem. But when the water rises over my head. I told my parents about it. They came to my place and ask her to live in a better way. As soon as my parents left my place. She came back to her routine to torture me.
Then i asked my parents to intervene. And then i went my hometown and left her to my parents place. But she created havoc at my home and then my parents left her to her parents.
When i went home we had a meeting with her family and her mother accused all of my family of torturing her. and said my daughter is right and u all are wrong. But her father tried to close the issue. and assured us of improving her. After 1 and half month of her stay at her home she came back to my parents and live for almost a month with them.
And then as all said that she is improved i brought her to delhi again on july 13th. But she is agin on the same track.
I m telling some of her tortures:
1. She always accuses me of having extramarital affair
2. She wants me to stop talking to every girl other than her. As i am married now and i don't need to talk to any girl. Whether it is work related.
3. She always asks me weird questions like how many girls in office? how many married? where they stay? what their husbands do? how many sits in your car?
4. She always say against my family. tries to provoke me to stand against them.
5. She threatens me of doing suicide.
6. She breaks her mangalsutra and throw it over my face.
7. When i was bringing her to her home after she continuously bugging me in office. She tried to jump of the car.
8. She even tried to accuse my family for dowry.
9. she even said that she was having an affair with another guy and she slept with her. Though she said this to make me feel bad. But wrong is wrong.
10. Since my marriage she never let me had s*x with her. She always saying that she is not prepared yet. Its been 6 months since our marriage. and she is not prepared?
I have all the proof of her these accusations. Moreover i have one recording, of the time when we went to her home and discussed all her deeds. and her father accepted that we have not asked for any dowry. I have some messages and phone call recordings.
I am very tensed. Please suggest me that can i file for a divorce? and what are my chances of winning the case?
Please suggest me how i can get rid of this situation?
