Cutting hand due to harassement by wife

Be a man, let go off her.. she is not worth your love.  A person who has multiple relations at the same time can never and never be trusted to be a lifepartner.   Get rid of her.  I bet you can never live happily even if you get her back.   "Jockey or Nothing"  in the same way "Faithful Wife or  Nothing."

I understand faith once broken can not be restored.

I tried hard to forget about her lover but he kept haunting me and I felt so insecure that I did this stupidity.

In 9 months, I have learned that she is not worth coming back as she has not shown remorse in these 9 moths and never tried knowing about my whereabouts so I also want to finish it in a peaceful way.

I have few proofs of her bonding with her lover which I will use only if required else I will let her go and live happily with that idiot.

But her brother in a reconcilation talk (which failed finally) reminded me of this 9 months old incident of cutting my hand which I nodded in pressure.

I am confused should I mantain this answer or refuse agreeing to that incidence as it can attract unnecessary twists.

If she started blaming me of suicide attempt or something similar then I can easily say that she has cut my hand or she has challeneged  (and tortured) me to an extent and thus I did that.

I don't know what to answer them in next meeting if they ask again?

Please give me legal opinion

Let the question come legally on paper if at all something comes up..or else plainly deny doing such things . Why to worry un-necessarily..

Be diplomatic.

The problem is that my wife just to get divorce may be cooking up things which I will anyway agree if she say directly. I, infact, offered her as well to get separated but they seem to start blame game. If they file any false case of 498a, I will come out of it as I have proofs of her affairs but I am just confused why they are highlighting this cutting hand thing after 9 months of separation. Being a girl she can put N number of allegations very easily. Their hidden motive is making me confuse. Even after 9 months I am not able to understand what they want with this separation? Highlighting such things can be a sign of beginning of war or was it just a foolish attempt to shift the blame? I am worried that they will highlight it again in next family meeting and confused what to say as in last meeting I nodded for this act.

This incident is immaterial in 498a. So remain comfy.

Regards,

Shonee Kapoor

Hi Shonee, Thanks for your reply. I am already in touch with you since last 2 months to handle my case :-) I will contact you directly.