Date of effective divorce

I have got Customary divorce from my wife as on date 18.02.2003 by executing divorce deed and register it on same day at notary. Later we submit a compromise pursis to Lok Adalat and order comes as under Detail of compromise pursis where clearly written that The parties of said petition got divorce as per prevailing customs of their society by mediation through key members of society as on date 18.02.2003. The divorce deed is registered at Notary. The parties of said matter have to abide by the compromise pursis As per Divorce agreement between parties, we are no longer husband & wife to each other and are independently living our lives. As per compromise pursis, the hon’ble court is request for order of divorce decree in the name of Justice The order comes on 05.07.2003 as under Today the matter was put up before the Lok Adalat. Both the parties by compromise decided to dissolve the marriage and they submitted compromise pursis. Hence marriage of parties is dissolved by decree of divorce as per compromise pursis. Both the parties have settled their right of maintenance and they have agreed to abide by the arrangement of divorce produced before us. They have to abide by the agreement so far the custody of children is concern. No order as to costs Family court registrar has shown many judgement to me where divorce decree with effect from divorce deed was given where as in my case effective date not written by lok adalat My question is what will be effective date of divorce 18.02.2003 when divorce deed executed and later recognized by court or 05.07.2003 when order comes