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Desperately looking for divorce

I got mrried 6 yrs back.My husband is verbally abusive.I absolutely have to come to the level where Im willing to do anything to get divorced from him.He has not spent a penny for me or my son in these six yrs.I left him 3 yrs back since I just couldnt take the fact he had abandoned us financially and emotionally.I havea son who is 4 yrs old who requires speech therapy.My mother paid for all his vaccinations,therapy and school fees.He now stays with his parents and I with mine along with my son.I called him and tld him I need a divorce.Initially he came for a compromise and told me he cant live with out me.I know he doesnt want it for society.He is threatening to take the kid away frm me and also threatening that he will never give a divorce nor will he accept my Khula.What should I do?We have been seperated for more than 3.5 yrs.He has not once come to see me or my son.Neither has he financially helped us.He just wants to take revenge and I want to fight back.



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SAA_Bombay (Pro)     22 April 2013

You are living saparately from 3.5 yrs. He is not helping you financially. You left him 4 yrs back. In case, you try for alimoney, things will go against you to some extent. Go for mutual divorce......  


(Guest)

Honestly speaking, I dont want alimony or any kind of child support.I want custody of my child and no trouble ever from him!

Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     22 April 2013

1.    Muslim women have the right to end their marriage if they are the victim of domestic violence and oppression. Islam has given this right to them.

2.    You can jolly well proceed on khula.  

3.    As far as rights of child custody goes you have right under hizant.

stanley (Freedom)     22 April 2013

Nowdays False cases of domestic violence are the call of the day when the marriage isnt working out . In another post this author with her ego is stating she is a metro women while husband is a villager and hence she seek Divorce which is not a ground for divorce . 

Two days back while attending the court i met 3 persons contesting domestic violence cases . As we Discussed our discussion went into the same directions . 

1. Kya Gandi allegations put forth kiya i did not even imagine said all the three in chorus.  Age group hardly 25 -27 yrs of age and they are working software company . 

2.Compensation asked XX lacs and wife is working in softwarre company . 

3. For the kid so and so amount asked XX.... K . 

4. Compensation XX lacs and all raised their middle fingers .

5. As flats are on joint names 50 % share asked by wife even though hardly any contribution from wifes side and all EMIs are being paid by husband for which all 3 raised their middle fingers .

 

 


(Guest)

@Stanley.I never said that was the only reason for me asking a divorce.There were other reason involved such as psychological issues.We both did go to a counsellor and he gave a report stating that my husband had issues due to which he would get anger bursts and throw things in the room, yell and scream at night.He would never physically hurt me (And Im glad).I just didnt want to type everything. People get judgemental the minute women request a divorce.

By the way I wasnt the one suggesting single mothers to go have live-in relationships or go for affairs as Mr stanley feels thats the only good suggestion he could give to anyone who wants to get a divorce.


(Guest)

@stanley..If you read my post properly...You will see that since he is in  he village..He isfalsely accusing me that I want to stay in the city and thats y I have left his home..which is definitely not the reason for me seeking divorce.


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