Hi experts,
I got married and in the year 2005 and I found out my husband is of not a normal character he has lots of mental problems and has acute depression and never used to talk to me. He never used to help me with day to day running of my family everyone said that it will be over in a period of time. He asked me to sell my flat and give him money which i refused as i was paying the emi from my salary and the flat was in my name .He used to always fight with me for small reason and used to live in a men's hostel. After my father's intervention and mediation he started living with me in the year 2007. I got pregnant in 2007 and his my in laws again insisted to sell the flat.
After a few days they visited us and again started the discussion of selling the flat which i refused flatly both my in laws and my husband beat me when i was 5 months pregnant and accused the baby was not their son's and left my flat.He started living in a hostel near his office and in march 2008 i got a disciplinary memo stating he has attempted and jumped from the second floor. He has acute depression and cannot speak to anyone properly. I applied for divorce in the year 2009 and could not pursue the case actively as my office sick leaves were taken by me to take care of the child and they have got Restitution of conjugal rights as ex parte in the year 2011. My inlaws have threatened me that they will get the custody of the child. We have been living separately for the past 6.5 years. It has been 4 years since the RCR was passed and there was no communication from their family for the past 4 years.
I pursued the divorce case again and Two private notice was sent to his office returned back to me saying for the reason left and when i called the HR they told me he resigned in 2011. The court notice also returned back.
I asked the judge to give me exparte as his address was not traceable she advised for paper publication but suddenly his counsel appeared and told me that he will appear for the cases very shortly and the judge asked the counsel where he is living and his address no information was given to the judge. Will my husband family get custody of my child. How to use the disciplinary memo from his office in the family court that he has acute depression and he will harm my child. He has resigned from his office in the year 2011. How to get a psychiatrist to analyse him through the court. Should i sell my flat and give money to my inlaws for the welfare of my child so that me and my son can live peacefully. kindly do help me.
