1 I am a 36 years old man married in dec 2007 we both are govt servant
2 after marriage came to know that we both are very different in nature I am very calm and composed and positeve she is is impatient restless and negative thoughts with suicidal tendancies
3 we have 2 children both are girls and both are MENTALLY RETARDED and if we plan more child the probability of being that child mentally retarded is very high
4 IN last 7 YEARS she has given me threats that she will commit suicide at least 30-40 times and once she attempted too. its kinda MENTAL TORTURE for me .
5 I have always been very nice and caring for her, never demanded any dowry and also shown her to psychiatrist . I hoped the situation would get better but nothing worked. now I am thinking that I should get out of it and should live a quality life. as I have given almost everything a good husband can give his wife and she has given nothing still she is the one who always complains.
6 NOW MY QUESTION is
1) Can I file a divorce case if yes, on which ground?
2) If she commits suicide after I tell her or file a divorce case, shall I be held responsible? can I be arrested under dowry law sec 498 ?
3) what should I do to save my skin as I know she has suicidal tendancies can something be legally done as precaution
I'll be grateful if I get a reply
parthorbhattacharya@gmail.com