I got married on nov 15, 2008. After marriage i and my wife stayed alone in bangalore.. both working in a mnc. She knew before marriage that my mom is dependent on me as i have lost my dad. i have 3 sisters all married and settled. my mom was alone in hometown till 6 months. During this period there were few quarrels between us, she tried to attempt sucide by writing sucide note that "no-body is responsible". she left home 3 times, her parents came and took her. She also told that she will not come if my mother is going to stay with us. I cann't leave my mother.
After 5 months of separation.. all elders from either side had a meeting in which i asked her to leave the job and come, i cannot leave my mom as i have to take care of her. She agreed for that and came home telling she had resigned job, but in reality she took 2 months leave from company and came home. After 2 days again she started quarrelling with my mother, She was taking preganancy tablets without my knowledge to avoid, when asked she denied it saying it was to correct her periods. She had a menstural problems. She also started behaving like mental disorder, taking hammer and hitting her forehead. She threatened that she will commit sucide jumping from 2nd floor. I called her parents and asked them to take her.
Now i have decide to wind this relation. There is no compatiability between us. Even our s*xual life is not good. She wont co-operate when i want to. i want to get divorce from her. please suggest how to go..