I am a hindumarried for 1 year and separated since 4 months of marriage. It was perfect arranged Hindu customs marriage but we have not registered it. I have a proof for the marriage like wedding invitation, photographs and my in laws who were prime witness. I have a mild nerve and muscle weakness which is not curable on an allopathy treatment. I am currently under Homeopathy treatment where the doctor gave 50% chance for the cure. I am unaware of this this medical issue and not under treatment before marriage. My husband misunderstood me that i have hidden the medical condition purposefully. I have tried to explain him but he is not trusting me. Due to this problem i was separated from him since 4 months. Also we are culturally different and i was unable to adopt my family customs within 4 months. But before marriage i have informed to my husband very clearly about my different cultural background and told him it would take atleast 1 year for me to adopt to his customs. When i was with my husband, i've been subjected to mental creulty. I was given separate room to stay, was not allowed to enter into Kitchen and pooja room since i belongs to different caste. I had been subjected to verbal abuse as well. Due to fear i have given a letter to him that i have hidden the medical condition. Literally i was thrown out of the house.Ive tried to commit suicide but i didnot do. My parents belong to different caste and i married to my mother's community which is forward community. My father belongs to backward community. He was aware of my cultural background well before my marriage. But my husband before marrying me had so many proposals but was rejected due to so many reasons. I was the last girl for him and we got married. We also went for a date before marriage twice and had a good understanding. We loved each other. But things went different after marriage. Even on marriage i had a problem due to medical condition. I have consulted Doctor about my medical condition and they said my medical condition will not affect my intimate life and can have child with my husband. From the day of separation, we have not seen each other but we were in contact with each other via phone, and social media and we were fighting each other. My husband has developed a grudge towards me due to this medical condition. I am an orphan and was residing in hostel since separation. But he is helping me financially via bank transfer. I've called him to meet personally to discuss about the problem but he avoided and said i will be in trouble if i force him for the meet. He also neglected relatives calls and opinion. He also shared our family problem in what's up. In social media when in kept his name as my surname, he literally scolded me. Even after separation, i was subjected to mental creulty. In spite of his evil character, he possesess good deeds. He got a job for me and even took me to the doctorfor the treatment. My distant in laws were supporting me morally. But my husband is not trusting me and understanding me. He is so adamant and stubborn.Inspite of all these Finally he is asking for divorce. Literally i was shattered due to these problems. I love him terribly I am not interested in divorce. Ill not give divorce. I want to know whether i. separation ii. medical grounds iii. mode of payment like he is paying me every month via bank transfer iv. difference of opinion will be a favour for divorce Kindly advise me.
