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Manish   25 June 2015

Divorce on mutual consent

Respected Law advisers.

Me and my wife had acourt marraige on 22 June 2007 in Mumbai. We have a girl child born 30 Mar 2008.

after the 4th year of marraige we had quarrels over pesky issues the qurrales turned into heavy verbal bash. Jan 2014 onwards the situation went worst when we stopped talking to eachother (no physical realtion there after) living together under one roof became very difficult.

Current Situation My wife is staying at my mothers place since April 2015. after a huge family discussion we came to a conclusion to go for a divorce by mutual consent. Wife has taken a private job, now she is completely careless about the child and not even concerned to call up and ask about the child. currently i am staying in other part of city and taking care of the child. her School, classes, baby sitting and all other child care.

we want to endup this marraige and file a mutual divorce. i am also seeking the child custody as mother has no single concern about the child right from the day she was born.

Need some sugessions to calmly end this marraige.



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Adv k . mahesh (advocate)     25 June 2015

1. first discuss with her personally and if any step for reconciliation then end all and live happily with your kid

2. if not then discuss with all the terms and about your kid custody and draft it meet a local lawyer for both

3. he will frame a affidavit with the draft for mutual consent divorce and any alimony to be paid prepare and negotiate with it

4. one thing if she asks alimony do not pay immediately, if you go for mutual consent divorce then pay inthe second motion means on second hearing

as mutual consent divorce is first you both should appear before the magistrate and give your consent and judge will direct for mediation and after 6 months if mediation fails then second motion will be their were you both again have to appear and give your consent and final divorce decree will be passed


(Guest)

Best person to contact is your wife.  You produced kid, now kid suffer due to your both ego problems.  

 

Dear, learn now and learn fast when I say patch up with your wife for sake of dotters future.

 

or be prepared to take curses of your daughter in the future. 

 

Dont opt for divorce.

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Manish   08 July 2015

We both have met last Sunday and discussed over the final call to proceed. She is now saying she is ready to come back for the daughter, and will test the relationship for 6-8 months. I am ok with that.... but in the mean time if her mind changes (for any reason) and she decides to leave, again the apathy

SuperHero (Manager)     08 July 2015

That is OK Manish. There are lot of Orphans who stay in Hostels with out care and affection.

Should your daughter go through same thing with out Love and Affection. What will she think about marriage in future?

Both Parents being educated should think about Daughters future, her well being, Leave aside the EGO.

Patience, Tolerance and Forgiveness are very important in once's life.

Marriage stands on 3 things Love, Trust and Respect. Wish you Good Luck.

Manish   08 July 2015

Thanks brother I will definitely consider your suggestions

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