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wifebetrayed (service)     14 December 2010

False case

My wife went to her home after one year of marriage, before leaving she was happy. her parent brainwashed her and wanted me to stay away from my family for some excuse or other she stayed their for 2 month . after that she accused of impotency and filed for divorve , notice does not mention any reason asking for mutual divorce and returning gold which she has already taken back. As can she file false case aganist me and my familty to force divorce second is it possible to request lie dectector test and prove truth. i have already coducted medical test to prove her allegation test are false and question her lawyer why she was taking so many pill, if i had any issue.



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Arup (UNEMPLOYED)     14 December 2010

"As can she file false case aganist me and my familty to force divorce second is it possible to request lie dectector test and prove truth"

 

- generally wife did it (false case).

I think she had a pre matrimonial lover, she got his contact again.

Do you ever feel she married you under pressure of her parents.

Arup (UNEMPLOYED)     14 December 2010

The impotency charge proved false, - you will get benifit of it.

siranjeet (JE)     14 December 2010

if DV is first weapon then false blame of impotency of husband is second weapon usually used by women.Even ladies who give birth to 2 or 3 kids blaim that her husband is impotent just to defame him. Is having children is not a proof that man is not impotent. if not so then either that  lady is involved in adultery or her husband is not impotent . what is solution of these false blames

Anjali (IT)     14 December 2010

why bother arguing in the court, just accept the divorce "submit to the decree by denying the allegations" for whatever reasons she mentioned..and move forward in your life...don't fight against her in the court.

Bhaskar for SOCIAL JUSTICE (Legal & Social Activist)     14 December 2010

 

 

There should be equilibrium in law and justice and its should not be gender biased.

 

Today women is claiming ,maintenance whether they have any real problem with their husband or not but they are claiming it as a matter of right and it becomes business now to earn easy money. Marry the rich person , do quarrel with them and then claim maintenance and alimony. When she is not ready to co-operate and take care of her husband and family then why she should get any maintenance/alimony. IT MUST BE STOPPED AND BE GIVEN ONLY IN DESERVING CASES WHERE HUSBAND IS GUILTY AND WIFE IS INNOCENT.IT WILL SAVE THE FAMILIES.

 

It is a jungle raj and  way to become rich on others money.

 

If husband has duty to maintain her wife then wife has also duty to take care of him and give love and affection. So there should be no maintenance at all for wife's who are just trying to enrich them by using this ANDHA KANOON.

 

 

Certain suggestions to preserve families and to save them:

 

          No maintenance till guilty is proved and if husband is ready to reconcile and bear all the expenses of wife and children if she re-joins him.

 

          No maintenance  and alimony in the 2nd marriage if she has got it in the first divorce.

 

          No maintenance if she can maintain her or her parents can maintain her and if husband is ready to take her back.

 

          Compulsory mediation for avoiding long legal battle.

 

          Law should be such that both husband and wife try to reconcile .

 

          Law should not be favoring anyone to ensure that marriages are saved.

 

        

      Domestic violence complaint / fir should be filed within 24 hours of alleged incidence in place of today's situation in which wife and her parents try to black mail the husband and his family to agree to their terms and if they do not agree then they file case even after many years.

 

 

DV Act must be applicable equally to men and women as today women is more aggressive and ill-treat, abuse, beat husbands and in-laws but the DV Act not applicable to them. It must cover wife's and their families to ensure equality and justice.

 

 

Limits provided in the Act for filing mutual consent Divorce after 1 year separation, desertion of 2 year,3 years for IRBM etc. should be removed and it should be only 3 months so both can start their life’s afresh.  When two persons can marry without any waiting period then there should be no waiting period for separation.

 

The most important thing is to fix time limit for completion of hearing and disposal of case in any court say 6 months only. The cases must be tried on fast track basis. The infrastructure of the legislative system should be strenght4ened and cases must be disposed off within 6 months.

 

For filing cases some minimum requirement of proofs etc. must be there and it should not be like this that for any small small issue anybody can go and file the case.

 

Specially for family matters pre-litigation mediation must be compulsory and the behavior/flexibility of each party in resolving the issue must be recorded and should be base of their case in future (if any).

 

Pre-neputal agreement should be made legal so husband and wife are aware before hand what they are going to get or loose if they part there ways and they should be allowed to take divorce on the terms mentioned in the agreement without going to court.  

 

Dowry law, Hindu Marriage law, Domestic violence Act etc. must be made equal for both husband and wife. Lacs of husband are suiciding because of these biased laws.

 

 

 

siranjeet (JE)     14 December 2010

Madam anjali,

i am just stressing that now women are making false allegation on their husbands just to harass them where he has to prove that he is not at fault & burden lies on men that he is not guilty & but burden  of proving false allegation should be on lady who make these false stories/allegation.if a lady having 2 or 3 children says her husdand is impotent then it has to prove her husband that he is potent by presenting lab reports & all burden of denying allegation lies on him


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