Hi,
Since month of July i m at my mothers place, as my husband and me had a big fight .... after that he never communicated to me, and not intersted in solving the problem... whenever my brother calls him to solve the dispute.. he just says i dont want to live with her,, i m ready to give her back all her money she spent on me... and on other hand his mother says we will not give her ailmony as she is working......
since we have booked a flat and both have contributed money in that, now he wants to cancel that flat and wants his money back... which i m not ready for... as if i cancel this flat.. i will not be able to get most of my moeny back as i made for Stamp duty and registatriton..
on my brothers advice ,, i registered case to counsillor, there also he told to counsillor that i wlll give her everything, if she want sons custody also i will give.... but at one point he dont allow me to spend time with my son...
after 8 yrs of married life, my husband says, he married me just because i was earning., .. otherwise he was never inerested in me. as i m dark, not good looking, he did favour on me by marrying me.. i did all duties of wife, daughter in law, mother... but the moment i took brk from work and wanted to spend some time on my health and son( 5 yrs old)... all the petty issues started at the home...
now i m getting calls from builder to come and solve the problem if we want to carry forward the or want to cancel the flat...
i wanted a my married life... but if in that married life , if love, respect is not there, is there any point ?? but again i think of my son....i m in dilema..... if husband dont want to live with me... i m ready for that too.... but he is not taking any initiative to solve the matter. only he keeps saying i want divorce.... i told him send me legal letter for that.... it is almost 6 months.... i want to take certain decision... as i dont want to live at my mothers place for longer period...
if he gives me divorce... i dont want any sort of ailimoney or any wife's rights from him.. but i want my son to live with me, as i cant live wtout him...
pls suggest... how can i live my life with dignity and without loosing my self respect... just because my husband dont want to live with me..
