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shrikanth (asst.manager)     26 April 2013

Harassment from my wife.

dear sir/madam,

i was given a notice to my wife to continous our family relationship. she came after 9 months. indian laws too worst for men. if woman fault also , men only struggling. i was joined my son into school. she took him to her mothe place. now they r asking to me had live with their place only. my parents too aged. sick also. every time she was giving warnings with dowry, house arrest cases li ke this type harassment. i have so many witnesses about her messages, talks, letters also. i want my two sons. one is 21-12-2008, 4-12-2010. i was fully fedepped with her. her parents, friends, colegues and relations all are suggesting , dont stay here pls go to ur husband. but she doesn't, i was well educated, i want to get job i will live my alone with freedom like this. from 2008 onwards i am facing this type of problems. monthly maintenance also i am giving. but she was too igo and reckles mannered. what i should i do in this time. i am unable to live without childdren. my thouhgts is going suicide.pls help me give suggesting. 2008 february is marriage date. nearly from marriage onwards she lived with me 100 to 110 days only. is it correct. i dont have any bad habits. everybody warnings to her only. pls help thank u



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Adv k . mahesh (advocate)     26 April 2013

given under such situation which only says that what she want give her divorce but what about children custody 

in given words if you or she file for divorce she may get it in 2 years or say mutual divorce but custody will go to womes as in your house aged parents and your job and she is not working and her mother is also there 

so intiatite a middle person to brain wash her thoughts even if you stop paying maintenance she will file for that 

Bharatkumar (ADVOCATE )     26 April 2013

U meet your wife and try to slove your problem, if she is not ready with u then divorce is best way for both.

But u think about your childs, for your childs u are forgot your problem and live with your family. 


(Guest)

If you both did not have any issue [children] then applying for divorce would not have been that difficult.


But now that you have a issue, that will be a major issue for both of you.


Try setting aside your personal ego problems and be together for the sake of the child's future.


Like that you will not face problems like roaming to court halls, seeking divorce, asking for custody etc.


Eitherways you got a problem,

1.  Live with her, that is also a problem.


2.  Dont want to live with her, be ready to roam to court halls, spend money, spoil child's future etc.


Which problem you want you decide?


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