got married in last year june, but soon after marriage problems started. I used to try my best to adjust, but it was all a waste. My husband is not bad at heart but his problem is he drinks regularly, and used to come home late. I used to wait for him for dinners but he never bothered, apart from this my mother in law is very controlling & dominating, she started making my life hell , i don't know why, she used to humiliate me, scold me on small petty issues, ie aloo chote kyo kaa diye. curtains kyo hataye, laptop kyo use karti ho, ye kyo khaati ho, she never liked me studying or reading, she wanted me to keep working whole day, my husband eats chinese, pasta's etc everything but i was not allowed to eat all this, and not because of care but my mother in law doesn't like females to enjoy such food, and she told me that, i used to cook everyday, but if on any day iam ill she used to blame that iam acting just to escape my household work, so even with 103 degree fever i had to work at times, because her cursing hurted and humiliated me alot. My husband didn't care that slowly i started falling ill, due to mental & emotional distress,due to his drinking habit we had fights, and that time he had abused me that this is my house so i will live according to my wish, and if you don't like then you can go back to your parents. Moreover after every fight my mother in law used to say you both should file for divorce, my son is young & handsome so i will get another girl for him , she used to interfare in everything, ex tumne mere bete ko hair cut ke liye kyo bola, tum hoti kaun ho, so i was not allowed to say any normal thing to my husband. My mother in law used to curse & scold me whole day, and my husband never bothered, but i still loved my husband so i didn't wanted to leave him, and then one day i said my husband all this , that iam deeply hurt and this is hard for me to tolerate. i humbly requested him to allow me to shift at a rented accomodation near by my matrimonial house, so that it can keep our marriage entact without any fights. I suggested this because my husband's elder brother & his wife also stays at a seperate accomodation in the same city, just because of my mother in law's behaviour, and they were a bit supportive so they asked me to talk to my husband, but on this my mother in law got furious and she made a plan to throw me out of their house, and within 3-4 days she called my parents and humiliated alot, on this my worried parents rushed to my matrimonial house with a journey of 15 hours, and my mother tried to request, she cried alot but my mother in law adamently said i don't consider her my daughter in law anymore so just take her back, and my husband didn't uttered a single word, altough he had tears in his eyes but he is verymuch scared of his mother so he couldn't stop me. My father in law is a very nice person but even he couldn't help because my mother in law keeps him like a dog, and this is something really sad. After all this i had tried alot to reconcile, i took help from mediators etc but nothing helped me, my mother in law has ordered my husband not to take my calls or reply my emails , total brainwash. So i tried 2 months but all in vain, so finally i have files a case of 125 crpc for maintenance, i didn't file RCR because my mother in law already lied alot, and inflicted several alligation on me & said agar ye wapis aa bhi gayi mai isse rehne nai dungi apne bete ke saath. God knows what kind of mother she is? But after long time my husband called me and said we are ready to accept you back but won't shift anywhere. Moreover he also said that mom has said that let her come back i will teach her a good lesson, he was drunk asusual and disclosed all this, But iam scared now, i really want to live with my husband and continue this marriage because i love and i also want him to leave his evil habits , but iam scared of his mother, she has already tortured me alot, and she has challenged that she will break this marriage. Due to all this i want a seperate accomodation, and i won't force my husband to live with me , he can divide the days, he can come over to me on weekends and i want to stay near the matrimonial house only to make things easy for my husband. I love my parents alot and understand that every child loves his/her parents, chahe wo kaise bhi ho, but i seriously don't want to keep any relations with my mother in law, beacuse she is very dangerous , and iam too much scared. If i go back to the same house where my MIL resides, then surely we will be divorced, and i will go under depression. beacuse already those 2 months after marriage were dreadful days , and i had to take medicines to reduse stress for the first time in my entire life. So please suggest me shall i file a case under PWDVA for seperate shelter, accomodation ??? My MIL doesn't let my husband speak to me at all, and she has illtreated me alot. So i want to file PWDVA and ask for a seperate accomodation. I don't know whats my MIL's problem, i love her son so much but still she wants to break her son's marriage.
