Around 1 year ago, my wife left our home with my 4 years old daughter. I could get her back home somehow by convincing my wife and in-laws about damage being done to my daughters education. You can find more details about this history topic in my earlier post
At that time I had realized that my in-laws are intefering too much in my family (by remaining constant in touch with my wife and polluting her mind by interfering too much in family activities). Hence I made sure to reduce my in-laws visits to my home, each time they visited our home, a new blunder used to start in family. I also reduced my visits with in-laws. I know few will criticise me for this behavior (minimizing contact with in-laws), but I find it essnetial to maintain peace in my family.
I could also smell that these people were also polluting my little innocent daughters mind with rubbish things about me and my family.
Due to this I made sure to not send my daughter AT-ALL to wife's relatives (for any function or festival), but at same time, I never resisted my wife from visiting her relatives, Whenever she/her parents asked me about visiting her parents, I agrred without any condition, but told them strictly that my daughter will never come to their place, my wife can go anytime to her parents/relatives, but without my daughter. But my wife always insisted that she will never go without daughter, due to this even after my permission, she has not visited her relatives for last 1 year
My only intention is to prevent any kind of family trouble or mind pollution of my daughter. She is very dear to me.
Can this behavior (not sending my daughter with my wife to her parents) cause any new legal problems for me. I feel answer is yes, but I need experts opinions. Also can you please guide me (on personal/legal level) how can i tactfully prevent my wife taking my daughter to her parents home? She is part of my family and I think I have right to decide about my daughter, but since she is minor can this become reason for mental cuenlty? I don't want to lose my peace of mind again, hence want your opinion.