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Abhineet Arora (-)     26 September 2015

How can I save my mother from my greedy father?

Hello all, My father filed for a divorce case with my mother 3 years back but instead of getting divorced they patched up since feb'14. In the 1st month things were almost fine but the following month I had to take gmat classes in noida, so I shifted from haryana in feb end but since that things slowly got back to old and now the circumstances are same as they were arnd 15-20 years back. We were living in a 3bhk which was on joint name and he made my mother sell it . However, we bought a new house 2bhk which is solely on my mother's name. Now the current situation is that I might b leaving for my mba to usa by jan 16 end. There are couple of things I am worried abt and I will be rrally obliged to get ur guidance and advice on the below questions. 1)my mom has been planning to make me and my elder brother as the nominees of the house but my father warned her that as it was his money which was used to buy the house, it is his legal right to become a nominee. Is that possible? 2) as I would be in usa , what can I do legally to keep my mom physically and monetary safe? 3) how can we save guard the house ftom my father's grasp as he regularly states that I hv given everything to u n I dont have any thing. Your sons can kick me out anytime n all. Now please guide me how to save my mother from my crazy and greedy father? Regards Armaan


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sagar bhatt   26 September 2015

in worst situation if u feel... n need... as u say in ur new house...all of u hv share in... so sell it out and give ur father his part and buy a new house for ur mother .. or file a suit from ur mother and get declaration by the court that ur father has no right in that...if in three of u .. no docu.evi. for this house... or.. if nothing will clear out... file the legal n true complain against ur father under DV

Born Fighter (xxx)     26 September 2015

Abhineet,

 

Your analysis of the situation is questionable. Your father purchased the 3bhk house from his hard earned money in which your mother was a joint owner. Then you say your father made your mother sell that house and then bought a 2bhk in which the mother is the sole owner.

So how is your father Greedy, unless he payed nothing to buy the property ??

Was the properties bought by your mothers money alone ?? Has your father not contributed anything for your studies/upbringing till date ??

 

There seems to be a trust defecit at both sides and relations have gone sour beyond stage of repair. Father is now growing old and he also needs a house to stay. Where will he go if he gets thrown out ??

 

Tyr to work out a peaceful solution. I do not know the full story and neither you have given full details on the monetary contribution part and reasons for fights between your parents. As kids try to make your parents reconcile , if possible.

 

Your fathers situation seems to be the same as what women get in when she is on verge of a divorce, where they feel insecured and threatened due to financial mess they would get into when couples seperate/get divorced. 

All the Best !!

 

 

 

saravanan s (legal advisor)     26 September 2015

the property that was registered on your mothers name is her sole property and your father cant grab it from your mother unless your mother agrees to gift it to your father.

so leave your apprehensions and look after your father well as you yourself had said that the property was bought out of hard earned money and he doesnt have anyn income of his own

Abhineet Arora (-)     27 September 2015

Originally posted by : Born Fighter
Abhineet,

 

Your analysis of the situation is questionable. Your father purchased the 3bhk house from his hard earned money in which your mother was a joint owner. Then you say your father made your mother sell that house and then bought a 2bhk in which the mother is the sole owner.

So how is your father Greedy, unless he payed nothing to buy the property ??

Was the properties bought by your mothers money alone ?? Has your father not contributed anything for your studies/upbringing till date ??

 

There seems to be a trust defecit at both sides and relations have gone sour beyond stage of repair. Father is now growing old and he also needs a house to stay. Where will he go if he gets thrown out ??

 

Tyr to work out a peaceful solution. I do not know the full story and neither you have given full details on the monetary contribution part and reasons for fights between your parents. As kids try to make your parents reconcile , if possible.

 

Your fathers situation seems to be the same as what women get in when she is on verge of a divorce, where they feel insecured and threatened due to financial mess they would get into when couples seperate/get divorced. 

All the Best !!

 

 

 

sir, the relations in the family are beyond repairs. When i said that my father made my mother sell the house, my father  gave her 2 choices either sell the house and keep the relation else he wont be a part of the family. Due to this issue and give yet another chance to my father for improving the relations, my mother had to agree but now every now and then he is creating issues and keeps on saying i am not finding any solace in this new house. from his behaviour and the things he says, we are not getting good vibes and due to which i am worried that he will not keep my mother happy after I leave for my mba.

He is getting retired in a couple of months and he has told all of us that he want to make a house for only him after getting retired.  We all said we dont have any issues with u doing so and dont want to interfere in anyways. So being thrown out of the house point does not arise at all.

Also, he informed us that he will continue working after the retirement as he doesnt want to remain idle. so he already has a job offer in hand, so he is fully secured as far as finances are concerned.

Regards

Abhineet Arora (-)     27 September 2015

Originally posted by : sagar bhatt
in worst situation if u feel... n need...
as u say in ur new house...all of u hv share in... so sell it out and give ur father his part and buy a new house for ur mother ..
or
file a suit from ur mother and get declaration by the court that ur father has no right in that...if in three of u .. no docu.evi. for this house...
or..
if nothing will clear out...
file the legal n true
complain against ur father under DV

sir, would you please tell me what is the term of the "Suit" which we need to file  to get the mentioned  declartion  from the court?

Abhineet Arora (-)     27 September 2015

Originally posted by : saravanan s
the property that was registered on your mothers name is her sole property and your father cant grab it from your mother unless your mother agrees to gift it to your father.

so leave your apprehensions and look after your father well as you yourself had said that the property was bought out of hard earned money and he doesnt have anyn income of his own

Sir, he is a wealthy man and he is currently earning arnd 1.5Lakh per month and the new job offer which he has got is arnd 2.5L per month.


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