my wife left house due to dispute on dec 2009 i filed rcr she gave reply thru her lawyer stating that she is not willing for rcr. after that she filed 489a on dec 24 09 i got bail and gone for hearing on 25 jan 2010 and judge given date on july 31 2010 but i filed rcr she came for hearing on feb 15 2010 since i had not gone to court judge given date on 29 april 2009 for counselling actual problem is she very much suspicious on me an due to this frequet quarrels n i use to beat her bcoz of unbearable suspect, both r working hav 2 kids i want to live with her but she should change herself n she should realise herself so pl help me how ican present myself in rcr