How to make wife either to rejoin or file divorce by herself?

For this you have to talk to your wife, ask the judge to send the matter to mediation center

We had referred to mediation during DVA case and it failed as she was proposing more conditions related to property....

Can I again insist for mediation? I don't want to prolong the case and ruin the family. I want her left with only one option either to rejoin or give me the divorce on MCD. How can make her arrive to this situation without dragging the case? Your valubale advise on this is much appreciated. Thanks.

It seems from the points noted she went her own and file suit for divorce. I observed in this no fault from the husband and agree his points to support to re-join family. Claiming financial support and immovable property is not at all agreeable inthis point. also her demand indicates is specific purpose to take over the control over things in her name 

Courts are for breaking only, they can't make. So for reunion, you have to put your own efforts.