Athena 29 March 2016

Husband not letting me talk to kid after initiating divorce

Respected Sir/Madam,

I am married for 10 years. My husband and i have differences, so he proposed divorce. I accepted for the proposal. Due to my job assignments, i travel. Kid is with father for last two years due to my job and also indifferences. My Kid is more close to him than me. I have been sending money for my kid till 6 months ago(around 70k per month).

He made me send my approval on email that i would not ask him for any alimony or surrender the custody of kid to him. After 10 years of marriage, all i am left with is my job. All my salary was deposited to joint account and he has been using it for his own purpose as well.

After doing all this, he is not letting me talk to my kid. Disconnected all phones, and on emails, he mentioned that i do not have right to even talk to her, since he filed for divorce and case has been filed.

1) Dont i have right to talk to my own kid, during the process or after the divorce process?

2) If I have every right to talk to her now, please let me know how to make him not restrict me talking to my kid (using law).

3) I would not want to be restricted forever, access to my kid. Please let me know what do i need to do in order to let him not take that right away from me.

4) We have had a property worth 1.5 crores, when we were married. Is there a way, i can ask atleast a minsicule amount of that property for myself?

PS: I am a working woman. I do not have or neither had any property on my name. I have not received any case related files from him yet. he is saying he has filed it already and provided me with case no.

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(Guest)

hello mam for any legal assistance do inbox me at my email........ juristybcreddy@gmail.com. regards..............BALACHANDER REDDY,ADVOCATE

adv.raghavan (Advocate,9444674980) 29 March 2016

1, during process you have all the right, by asking for visitation, after divorce it depends upon the stand you take in the said case.

2, file application for visitation rights , and make your stand clear on child visitation.

3, when matter gets decided in the above application you will have the said rights.

4, yes you can ask for the same, he can relinquish his rights over the property or you can do the same to get lumpsum in cash for your share. if it is JOINT PROPERTY

5, Ask him for case number, if he refuses send him legal notice and proceed from your side if you are sure that he had not filed any case till date.

Athena 30 March 2016

@adv Raghavan Sir & @BalaChander Reddy Sir, Thank you for your response.

@Captain Sir, Thanks for your response. I was under a impression that forum is to give just legal advices and was not expecting personal remarks. Please do not pass remarks with out knowing entire story. Just to let you know, i had to work to support them not that i had any other option.

Thank you very much every one.

(Guest)

Relationships however strong they are, are at the same time very fragile, lot of vairables are also in important way affecting relationships.

However, it takes two to tango.

One cannot blame entirely only one person.

You can pacify with husband, thats the answer to every problem that you are facing or perhaps will be facing in future. Have a forgive and forget approach. Give it a try, if nothing works, dont bother yourself too much, life is too short to sit and worry about things which did not happen, move on, find someone else, live life when it lasts.