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Hello,
I wish to take help of respected members on this forum.
Facts of the case:
· Got married in January 2011, from the starting our marriage was full of trouble as we both have understanding gaps and her mother interfered a lot. My wife instead of using her brains and accepting my thoughts just blindly believe on what her mom said.
Bad for you. You should not have let the MIL intervened in your lives. IT'S YOUR FAULT. SHOULD HAVE BEEN A MAN.
Its very easy to comment who should be man, well I can only say that something not in your hand at all and you cant change the mind of other. also your replys are like you are making joke of others with problem, I wish god will not give you same kind of problems. All the best.
· She went back to her mother’s home in May-2011 and after negotiation and interferes of relative we started living again in November-2011.
Did you ask your wife, is she really ready to live a married life with you in that point in time???
FYI I have asked her and her answer is alwaays yes she do wanna live. But her mother ego is that I am a Man and not listening her blackmails that I should left my parents.
· She again went back to her mother’s home in Feb-2012, and from then she is still there. Many times relatives interfered trying to negotiate but nothing happened.
Perhaps you never asked her that question, what do you want from me dear! Yes I do asked her she and her family is unsure they also demanded a huge sum we agree to pay that but they stepped back. From there side lots of brains aree thinking.
· Now around one month back they said that she want to live with me again.
She and her parents got fed up of neighbours and the society at large, who were asking them questoins ki "beti ko kab jaane denge, maajhra kya he, kab tak rakhenge beti ko maayke mein" I agree with you on this.
· I am certain now that I want a divorce and can’t bear her anymore in my life. I need a divorce.
SURE??? sure you want divorce?
· They are not agreeing for divorce and say they will not settle this only option I have to take her back in my life.
Try it, A KNOWN DEVIL IS BETTER THAN AN UNKNOWN ONE !! sorry I can afford to live without devil but cant live with a devil from whom I am sure that coming life will become more hell as in my case devil is not my wife devil is her mother..
· We don’t have any kid.
Good for you both, and you are saved of sins who will commit in the future with regard to the kid ! Less litigation expenses now !!
Thank God
Queries:
1. We are separated from 17 Months now, and in any case I want a divorce till now waiting that they will agree for MCD, but it not seems so they will agree.
If they not agree for Mutual Consent Divorce, then 5-6 years gauranteed roaming to court halls. No need to go Jogging, roaming to court halls would reduce your weight! hmm this is the only fear I have thats y waiting them to agree for MCD
What to do in this and How to proceed for divorce?
File RCR petition, wait for your lovely's reply, then when she wont budge, file divorce petition based on desertion. Thanks
2. What is the procedure I should follow now?
File Restitution of Congugal Rights that your wife has left you and is not cohabiting with you. Thanks
3. How long it may take in getting divorce?
A good 5-6 years if your lovely lovely wife does not agree for MCD aka Mutual Consent DIvorce. In the meantime if your lovely cube files some false cases like 498a, DV, 125 crpc [for alimony] then a good 6+6 years, make that 13 years !!! Hmm lets shee what will happen. They are wrried for legal things because her sister and bro both are unmarried and at the age of marriage. you also know how society works
Please give me your expert opinions so i can try to come out of this mess, really in need of your help.
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