I want to file divorce

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Originally posted by : Sunanda
	My Husband is drunkard, and because of his illtreatment, I had filed a case on him and left him. Now living separate since one year. Meantime he accused me having relationship with a guy and published a fake news in local evening paper. I had given clarification for that news.  Now i want to apply for divorce, and planning to remarry. My husband sometimes agrees for divorce and sometimes he will treat me like will kill you if file divorce.  I am planning to marry a guy ( my husband is unaware about this guy) who helped me during all this time, is this will be a issue for divorce???   Please help.

What case have you filed on your husband after you left him?

Btw, his accusations that you have an affair is proven by your own statement - "I am planning to marry a guy ( my husband is unaware about this guy) who helped me during all this time"

Your marriage is all but over. Talk to your husband clearly once and for all about everything and try to go for a MCD. Do not sling mud by filing false cases of 498a , 125 etc which some advocates might ask you to do.

But remember, the grass is always greener on the other side!

@ HELPING HAND

How much it will cost for Divorce?

Your life and the kids life.

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ha ha ha....excellent reply...helping hand...true indeed

@ Sunanda 

The time and money required to obtain a divorce  in india and Seeking a divorce  is a long-drawn procedure. Instead of contested divorce estranged spouses can mutually agree to a settlement and file for a "no-fault divorce" under Section 13B of the HMA.

If you are  planning to remarry a guy  dont make any wrong legal step. it will distress you.

Ans

1)  a) If you choose contested divorce it will take 3 to 4 year approximately

      b) Plan for MCD it will take only 6 Month

2)  Yes

3)  Don't make this type of mistake

4)  If you realy want to remarry turn him for mcd

5)  The Conditions required under section 13B of the Hindu Marriage Act are as follows:

(i) Husband and wife have been living separately for a period of one year or more,
(ii) That they are unable to live together,
(iii) And that both husband and wife have mutually agreed that the marriage has totally collapsed, Hence marriage should be dissolved.

6)  Depend on lawyer

Thank u all for replies. 

@helping hand : You are right to say that COST is Your life and the kids life.  but since I married him I am working and using that money for my living. He is drunkard. I moved away from him because I cant compromise my kids life.  I am still working while husband at parents house jobless. 

@Deeply Hurt : He accused me that I have relationship with almost 5 - 6 people. That too one of them is a small time celebrity :P and the evening news paper which published news , has carried the other side of the story favoring me next day. 

The cases which I put of him is not written its verbal, because of illtreatment, nieghbors had called Police. 

Thank u for all concerns and replies. So it is better to talk to him and make him to agree for divorce.