how it will help if I send money to her.
--- it will help no way. ultemately you have to go to court.
Arup (UNEMPLOYED) 02 May 2011
how it will help if I send money to her.
--- it will help no way. ultemately you have to go to court.
Krishna Kumar (Business) 02 May 2011
Hi Arup Sir,
Thanks a lot for your answer.
---- have you written proof that she has taken away the valuables ?
false statement in front of whom? are they ready to witness before the court?
against 60 calls a day, doubt is quite natural. what is her reply?
There is no proof I have writtern when she has taken those valuable as she left when I was not present at home. But she accepted she has taken all gold and other valuables from my home infront of some peoples. They can give the widness for that.
She created false statement about me by saying I am not allowing to go outside, I am tourturing daily by asking about the conversation with that guy etc.,
--- how you came to know? have you good contact with her ? have you paid any maintenance to her so far?
There is no contact with her after she left home. I, my parents, and some relatives went her home. But she present only one time other tiimes she did not in her home. They refused to give her phone # and I sent mails to her, no reply. I did not paid any maintenance to her till now.
has she independent source of income? how she is maintaining so long time?
She was working before marriage and after also. But after three months she left the job and started telling she want to study higher studies. I believe she is doing higher studies with the help of her parents money. She did not let meknow what she is studying etc.,
--- on what ground you gave so much money to her?
has she created any pressure upon you?
this loan creats the doubt that you are making story.
No Arup sir. It is true I given money to her. When we both live together happily she told for her marriage her parents got some loan for higher rate of interest. There was some offer in my credit card with less interest. She asked me to get the loan and give to her father. She also told EMI will be paid by her father/brother. So I given, but they are not giving EMI. I am only paying. (When I asked about the money to them, they spoke in such a way they want to compensate with the alimony)
have you record that she accepted this amount?
Yes, they accepted they got the money in front of others.
Pls let me know how will I go further.
Many Thanks. Krishna
Arup (UNEMPLOYED) 02 May 2011
do you like to get her back?
if so file rcr.
if you want divorce, pray it at earliest. before praying, ask her about the fate of your conjugal life, if she shows her unwillinness to contineu, then ask her for mutual divorce, where you both have pray jointly and stick on the matter still it judicially decided.
Krishna Kumar (Business) 02 May 2011
Hi Arup Sir,
Thanks for your reply. Can you please let me know if I file Divorce on the ground of desertion and cruelty. I read in some places, after two years only I can file divorce on ground of desertion and cruelty.
If I file with in 1.5 years, will it stand in the court or can I send lawyer notice to her by asking MCD.
Many Thanks, Krishna
ShivShanker saini (Advocate) 08 May 2011
bettr you go to a local lawyer and sk him then make up ur mind that want do u want ?
YOU are confused person
JACK WELCH (Student) 16 August 2012
In such situations everyone is confused ?
Nitish Banka (lawyer) 04 February 2018
If you are from the Husband side and your wife is capable of earning and having good qualifications and if you are unemployed then how will you defend the interim maintenance case filed by wife.
Here are the few judgments which you must use to fight interim maintenance cases these judgments are handy.
Smt. Mamta Jaiswal vs Rajesh Jaiswal 2000 (4) MPHT 457 spouse who is well qualified to get the service immediately with less efforts are not expected to remain idle to squeeze out, to milk out the other spouse by relieving him of his or her own purse by a cut pendente life alimony. The law does not expect the increasing number of such idle persons who by remaining in the arena of legal battles, try to squeeze out the adversary by implementing the provisions of law suitable to their purpose.
In Sanjay Bhardwaj & Ors. vs The State & Anr. wherein while considering the provisions relating to maintenance under The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005 (D.V. Act) and other prevalent laws like Hindu Adoption and Maintenance Act, 1956; Hindu Marriage Act, 1956 and Section 125 of Criminal Procedure Code (Cr.P.C.), it was held that, “a husband is supposed to maintain his un- earning spouse out of the income which he earns. No law provides that a husband must maintain a wife, living separately from him, irrespective of the fact whether he earns or not. Court cannot tell ask husband that he should beg, borrow or steal but give maintenance to the wife, more so when the husband and wife are almost equally qualified and almost equally capable of earning and both claimed to be gainfully employed before marriage”.
In Sakarben Shambhubhai Rabari & vs Shambhubhai MasharubhaiRabari while fixing the quantum of maintenance, the Court has to take into account not only the needs of person who claims maintenance but also the capacity, status, commitments and the obligations of person who has to pay it. If the husband has to maintain other persons like his parents, etc. reasonable allowance for their maintenance shall have to be made. It would be unjust to grant maintenance in an arbitrary manner. The party who has to pay maintenance is also not to be virtually rendered a destitute. A fair balancing of all the relevant factors is to be done by the Courts without making an emotional approach to the problem. The court shall have to keep in mind that what is to be provided is the
maintenance and it cannot have saving element in it nor is it the purpose of the legislature to put the claimant in a luxurious position. The definition of maintenance given by the Act makes this position amply clear.
The Hon’ble Supreme Court in Manish Jain Vs. Akanksha Jain held
The Court must take into consideration the status of the parties and the capacity of the spouse to pay maintenance and whether the applicant has any independent income sufficient for her or his support. Maintenance is always dependent upon factual situation; the Court should, therefore, mould the claim for maintenance determining the quantum based on various factors brought before the Court.
By-: Advocate Nitish Banka
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