Inter caste marriage

1.    In such facts situations ‘wife’ should be taking your side always then such marriage works. Make them understand their daughter spent 2 months with a man in a foreign land! What more your FIL needs to know to come out of self created caste – customs barrier and also tell him Arya Samaj Marriage Certificate is legal valid document and divorce is not so easy to get so that he can get his daughter re-married after she has spent 2 months with a man! The idea here is that his daughter should be feeling happy to live with the man she married.

2.    Suggest to jointly opt for marriage counseling by a trained psychologist / marriage counselor near your ordinary residence locality found via reference.

3.  Try reasoning out all above and if all above fails then check your wife out to come to Court and seek a protection order from Court so that under protection Order from Court both of you can live like married couples and her family cannot interfere when such Protection order is in place and with passage of time they will accept both of you which is what happens in similar situations at the end.

If yoyu continue the same, you will get f**ked very soon...i dont know if your wife can compramise them or not but surely her family will compramise her.

so my first suggestion is

1) first make your wife belive nothing is going to happen to his father or family members.

2) try to keep your wife most of the times by your side and be nearer to her always.

3) if he father is not allowing you to meet her , what are you doing...did you go to see director to tell your scriptt . She is your wife man damit...just go and sit in his house, and live along with them untill he allows you.

Thank you very much for you responses and really appreciate your responses.. Well let me elaborate more about it.

Well when my went to her father's house on 2nd july 2013 since then they have make her realize that she has very bad. She is living in a guilt that she has spoiling her families and sibling's life. And black-mailing her emotionally. her sisters/mother cry all the time in front of her that you shouldn't have done this and all sh*t. But from my side there is nobody to tell her anything or to make her understand. They are playing very smart as she always tells me that I have done so bad with them but my father never told me anything, I mean never scolded or shouted on her. they are just doing that. so she is going with the circumstances. As her whole family start crying in front of her and as her father is not well physically. So her mother always tells the same thing that please wait for the right time or so..and thats what she tells me always that wait for sometime we will get marry with their wishes in november or december.  but till then they will change all her mind and all and will spoil both of ours life. 

If i tell my wife something she just talks to me according to her family and use their words. But she is not understanding that with this we are going to spoil our life. and nobody can help then.

Her mother always try to scared me that her uncle is not good man and he can do anything with anyone of you if he got to know about my caste (SC)or something. He will kill my wife and you and will never let you get married. All those sh*t you can understand. 

Actually I am alone here in this situation and nobody is helping to make her understand. If i tell my wife something then she just tells me that please understand me and all emotional sh*t of her family. 

I am stucked here. I am feeling helpless and sometime feels to suicide but not getting solution for this. she is just not able to go against her family right now coz of the way they are black mailing her( her father will die/ nobody will marry your sisters/brother etc.). They even believe that we never had physical relationship with each other after getting marriage. Also we went for honeymoon just after our marriage to Vaishno Devi and Patni top in jammu. I have all the pics everything

Please suggest something i cannot afford to leave my life and i love her extremely after being in relationship for 4 years you can understand what i am feeling for her and she was just 21yrs old when we met and now she is 25yrs old. And we would be celebrating our 1st marriage anniversary on 24th November 2013. Please help somebody.

Also would like to inform that she has stayed with me from March 2013 to July 2013 in Kenya and Delhi at my sister's place.  Now her father forcing her to go to Nepal with his father just to change the weather and all for her they are trying to convence her. As they belongs to Nepal but now settled in Delhi and has Govt. Job And when she was staying with me here in india or kenya, she used to live like married woman. Used to wear sindur, managlsutra, Chuda etc.. all those things which normal married woman does. also here in my family when we came back from kenya everybody know about our marriage. whole my family knows that and she used live in the same way. but since then she has gone there at her house.. her family doesnt allow her to follow anything niether they want us to meet not even talk over the phone independently. she talks to me when her father is not at home or when nobody at home. 

hi i want to know the rewards for intercaste marraige govt is gifting, what is the process and what document required 

please be precise whether you have differences between you tgwo?

Differences between both of us as an what sir.