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1. had filed divorce in district court, now at no cross stage heading for ex party as no say and no cross against wife ordered
because wife not appearing except for 1st date on which her application for say got rejected.
ok...
2. wife filed rcr in same jurisdiction but at family court , i appeared ready for co habitation but wife not agreeing also im slapped with 125crpc , have 2yr kid in her custody, both petitions at hearing stage after filing of affidavits and denying her allegations..
What do you mean by slapped man? Its every woman/girl's birth right to 125! We husbands should be thankful that there is no law to punish husbands to use that hugely demeaning word "SLAPPED" Lolz..
3. wife called me and askimg now for MCD,in reply i told her :- "ready for divorce but not one time settlement, i'll go for monthly alimoney which court decides..... " she got wild.
Dude, why are you not getting the point? When she herself is agreeing for one time settlement, its a blessing in disguise! Go for it, get over with the headache, once and for all!
4. in MCD is 6mths waiting period applicable as we were seperate for 1yr?????
Going to courts will itself take 6 months + 6 months, why is the urgency, I cannot make out.
5. should i contest it in district court and try for ex party?? i know its difficult in india but what if she comes for MCD and refuses later??, again i have to contest right???
If she refuses later? Even God cannot answer that question! Why do you want to go to district court? Just wait, agree to her wish of one time settlement, she will surely agree for MCD and you'll get back your life !
6. or should i ask her to take her cases back i.e rcr sec 9 + 125crpc and then file a joint draft for MCD JUST FOR DIVORCE , alimoney i dont wanna pay lump sum as she has captured my moms flat and parked her bottom there.....
Once you file MCD together, the RCR and 125, 9 wont stand, they stand automatically withdrawn! Yep I thought there was a catch there! Your wife is smart, already staying at your mom's flat, wow, what a criminal Brain [sorry for calling criminal]
Here you can ask her to vacate the premises, just ask her to vacate, and she may vacate, eitheways you may get to know one more hidden charecterstic of your wife! Good luck with that.
Or what you can do is, file a seperate case via your mom to get the premises vacated, though that will take some time [years] you will get it back for sure. I hope the flat is in your mom's name and not in your name.
7. 6mnths waiting cant be waived off without highcourt decision????
Nah
8. should i go for it or not???? i asked for my kid custody but she refusing and dont want him to come 2 me in near future,,,,,, can i go for MCD AND THEN file for visitation under guar. n ward act?
or contest divorce and contest custody??????
Take one step at a time man, first MCD, then divorce, then get that bl**dy decree of divorce, get a nice frame to hang it in the living room as such a paramveerchakra certificate! Then relax for sometime, then file for custody.
Will be glad to guide you through custody process also!
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