Maintenance for the kid

Here i see 2 points...

1. If your worry is really to make sure that your husband is responsible for your kid growth and he need  to show some care on kid......then its okay...you make him to understand and also share your inability  to nurture the baby all alone.. 

2. If you are not cared of taking maintenace from him in monthly basis, but your aim is his properties the equation totally different. Dont try  to take his properties , all of sudden if he take U turn and if he say, i want  to rejoin with my wife then you have  to face big problem.

Make it very clear and simple, 

1. if you want divorse tel him that we cant live togetehr anymore and apply mutual consent and get setteled the way you want. 

2. If you want  to get his properties throught this divorse process....its seems easy but its depends on his appeal in the court....you may be edn up with frustarrtion.... 

Originally posted by : Saayujyaa S
	. If you want  to get his properties throught this divorse process....its seems easy but its depends on his appeal in the court....you may be edn up with frustarrtion....

How can properties be got in divorce process 

Thank u Stanley sir,

Thank God atleast my hus will be forced to pay the Maintenance!! 

The real Fact is i wanted a divorce , but he applied for it prior to me,

Hez a toy in the hands of his parents, his parents brainwashed him as i ahvnt given them the dowry they expected from me...thats y they made him sign the divorce petition. 

i really want him to understand the meaning of a taking care of a child, as hez an irresponsible  guy, who is 31 now, and do u believe , he has just a 4 month work experience, overall hez not interested to do a job too.....

1 more thing i have to clarify: during my first counselling session, the counsellor just heard both sides, she dint show any interest in patching us up as the sounsellor just heard the stories but dint give any opinion or advise from the counsellor's side, it was around 40 mints, then she just refer to a psychiatrist as my hus alleged he tried to commit suicide many times( though he didnt attempt, he said this to impress the counsellor) Is this what is called counselling....????